my dad drinks to damn much and he gets drunk too easily and my mom(if i want to even call her that.) is on her 4th ******* relaps and she yells at me every freaking day for no damn reason! i dont know what to do. if i do one thing she yells at me,if i do another thing she yells at me. she has slapped me i dont know how many times and.....i just want to get out of there. i rarly have friends over and when i do my parents dont say ANYTHING to us. we have to go outside and away from the house just to escape the tenction. i dont know what to do i have to stay SO quite and at times i've just thought of running away. what can i do?
2006-07-28 04:54:15 · 13 answers · asked by sea_witch_16 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Look in the phone book for the Crisis Clinic. Call them & tell them what's going on. They can direct you to the best agency to help you.
2006-07-28 04:58:19 · answer #1 · answered by sweetsinglemom 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to bring in the authorities. I would get a small tape recorder and record one of these awful days. Don't provoke any fights, just have your parent and guardian do what they do normally, yell, drink what have you and you could narrate such as this is my dads 8th beer. Bring the tape and your self to the mental health area of the hospital. These are the people who can help get you to a safer environment. They can even provide the psychological help to your parents if they need it. If you don't know where the mental health area is, go to the police and ask. They will direct you to the right place in the hospital. If you have friends and/or relatives that can corroborate your story, ask them if they would assist you. This is the best advice I can give for a dire situation. Get help now for all. The longer you wait the worse you are going to feel and then you won't be able to reason soundly.
2006-07-28 12:07:15 · answer #2 · answered by Secret Squirrel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call child protective services or have an adult do it. But just remember that you could be taken from your parents for good. But then your parents do need help, don't they?
What happens to runaways? Its a life far more difficult life than what you are describing. Most die, if not from freezing or heat exhaustion, then from other ways. There are a lots of sick people out there just waiting to take advantage of young, innocent persons. Most runaways get involved in gangs and cults in order to survive. Most young girls are lured into prostitution and are abused. Then it almost impossible to break free of this kind of life. It's a sick world out there. Better try and find a cousin, grandparent or aunt or uncle to live with. If this is not an option then your only choice may be to speak to an adult that you trust about your situation. Is there a nurse at your school?
2006-07-28 12:06:05 · answer #3 · answered by SeraMcKay 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to someone you can trust, like an older adult, or perhaps a school counselor, I knew a friend whose parents use to do the same thing, except with drugs. she would smoke pot every day and yell at her daughter for every little thing, now she lives with another family member the only time she sees her mom is when she visits. Open your mouth now, before this really effects you, running away is a big temptation, that more teens are doing in their lives, but it doesnt seem to help escape the problem. And yes pray, Cus personally I was in the same situation with my mom when I was younger, and once I got down on my hands and knees, god worked a tremendous miracle for me, as he will for you too
2006-07-28 12:01:27 · answer #4 · answered by kittykat 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is there another trusted adult you can talk to? Like an aunt, or a family friend. Maybe even one of you friend's parents? You really should talk to someone. I know there is someone in your life who will listen to you and help you.
Even someone at school (I know it's summer break for most right now) but you could contact your school district and they can put you in touch with a counselor to try to help you figure things out.
If worse somes to worse, the next time either of your parents slap you, call the cops.
Please try to talk to someone as soon as possible.
HUGS and good luck
2006-07-28 12:02:31 · answer #5 · answered by Amy P 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats horrible, I am so sorry. If you have any family you trust, I'd say see if you can move in with them. Like a favorite aunt. Also, I agree with the first answer. If you ever need someone to talk to a crisis center is always a good start. Talk to a teacher or a psychologist at school about the situation if you have no one you can trust to move in with, and they can help you. Hope it all works out.
2006-07-28 12:01:27 · answer #6 · answered by Lilel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have help available. It will take a great deal of courage to act but you CAN if you choose to do so. Your state probably has an office of child protective services. Get hold of those people. You can find them in a phone book or by talking with a priest, minister, school counselor or other sympathetic adult.
You understand don't you, that your parent's behavior is not your fault? They, not you, are responsible for their reprehensible actions. You and they both need help. It is available but will take effort on your part. IM me if it will help.
2006-07-28 12:07:22 · answer #7 · answered by DelK 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wish I could help you, but in this situation you have to depend on yourself and God. You are a lot stronger than you realize. Pray and pray a lot. God will help guide you to make the right choices. Stay as positive as possible and you will be all right. If necessary report your parents. Do not ever take abuse from anyone. I read your profile and you sound like a beautiful young girl full of life and dreams. Hold on to that.. God bless you. I will be praying for you......
2006-07-28 12:05:27 · answer #8 · answered by BlueAngel 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have that bad of a problem maybe you should tell someone like another relative or maybe ask if it would be ok if you lived someone else for a while that is if you have anywhere to go. If you do not. You can tough it out and get out of there the day you turn 18. Good luck to you.
2006-07-28 11:59:07 · answer #9 · answered by Rachel Bitchface 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to Pray. Everything is Possible with Christ. I know that might not be the most popular thing but it will work, God will deliver you from that situation. Pray ok. I will pray for you as well
2006-07-28 11:58:46 · answer #10 · answered by Pobedy S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋