My boyfriend & I hadn't had the best relationship until recently (i.e he got angry easily, we'd had sex already, I was quite restrictive - didn't like him going away to conferences etc without me) and we've wanted to get married since day one. However, everytime we say we'll change and we never do...we just settle. On Monday, he really felt like God was speaking to him so we've decided that if we don't change within three months (i.e, helping each other spiritually, growing in faith and as a person, actually HELPING each other which we haven't been doing) we won't get married cos it'll be unfair. But we both desperately want to and we're both in the process of growing closer to God etc ... I don't know what I'm asking really...i'm kind of scared I guess...
2006-07-27
22:08:05
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Bridezilla
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Marriage & Divorce