He generally treats me like a princess. But when we're having sex, he slaps me and calls me names like whore, sl*t or *****. Apart from this, we have a great sexual (and emotional) relationship. Should I be concerned, or should I simply enjoy the greater part of our union?
2006-07-27 22:03:14 · 10 answers · asked by Whiteleather 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Another lost soul trying to find a way out?
Let's say this one is still hopeful
Praying hard for some quick salvation
Easy as an answer from a perfect stranger?
Reasonable as it might be?
All right, now YOU KNOW the answer..
2006-07-27 22:05:44 · answer #1 · answered by Roland 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nice name, white leather... maybe you should use some leather in the bedroom since you are already bordering on BDSM. I know lots of women who like a man to slap them, pull their hair, and call them names in bed. It's just how they get their freak on. You can just enjoy it, or you could tell him it bugs you a little bit. Or you might turn the table on him and tell him "That's Misses ***** to you, studmuffin!" He might be taken aback or he might struggle for dominance, but then you'll know if it's more than mere kink. You might even discover that you like being dominant to him, and you two could take turns.
2006-07-27 22:15:38 · answer #2 · answered by Wyld Stallyns 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well he obviously has misconceptions about what women want/like. Just tell him you don't like it. But make sure you throw some praise for the good stuff he does.
He probably learned it from someone that liked it and thinks it's true for every woman, or he just learned it from watching porn. Either way he didn't learn it from you and if he wants to please you he will change it.
Or like the above have said, it's some sort of fantasy. But still it doesn't have to be every time. Geez! haha
2006-07-27 22:08:55 · answer #3 · answered by Sir Sandwich Slayer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i see no problem..i like being someones whore every once in awhile! as long as there are those times he makes love to you also...i wouldent worry. there is ******** and making love .. a good sex life is a healthy combination of the both ! thats my oppinion.
2006-07-27 22:07:28 · answer #4 · answered by pinksgirlfriend 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't be concerned. Maybe the thought of being dirty and talking dirty turns him on. Unless he starts treating you like that outside of your bedroom, I wouldn't be concerned.
2006-07-27 22:07:06 · answer #5 · answered by mlove1307 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think I would worry that one day he would carry it outside the bedroom
2006-07-28 00:31:22 · answer #6 · answered by freeatlastboone 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe hhim calling you those names turns him on in his nly sex fantasy world. but if it bothers you tell him how will he know if you dont comfront him
2006-07-27 22:06:14 · answer #7 · answered by Remedy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some guys like to talk dirty, as do some girl. If it bothers you talk to him about it.
2006-07-27 22:11:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
if my boyfriend called me those names...it would ruin the mood for me and make me feel dirty and nasty...he should make you feel beautiful...and hes not going to do it by calling you those names.. sounds like you dont like it ...so you need to tell him you dont...if you dont it may hurt your relationship
2006-07-27 22:09:24 · answer #9 · answered by LoLa 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's fantasy, go with it
2006-07-27 22:05:54 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋