i love my husband very much.and i know he is trying to do all the works to make me happy in life.now the thing is that,when we come for love making,he wants me to do like porns.i came from a conservative family,and i didnt have that much knowladge about sex.but,i am willing to make him happy.i have 1son of 4yrs.so,everytime we do love,i get tensed that whether he listen to our sounds or not.is this my negetive atitude to turn off from sex?or i show dissagreness to my husband?i am feeling so guilty about this,that i cant perform better to my husband.what is the proper solution for me?please help.
2006-07-27 22:03:22 · 5 answers · asked by Farjo 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
record all the love words that he likes and let him listen with head phones.
Sometimes the man will look out side if he didn't find what he wants in the bed so, don't be cold women.
Be wise to tell him the best and sexiest word by whispering with emotions so he will be like a wolf.
If he loves you and you love him do what ever he wants, believe me.
Good luck
2006-07-27 22:13:52 · answer #1 · answered by dragowolfthelegend 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie...I used to be in your shoes. My man encouraged me to talk to him...now he tells me to shut up! LOL
But I have noticed sex for ME is so much better when I am verbal. It is just bedroom talk. If you want exaples contact me and I will email them to you. I am honnest, it makes sex so much better...and it makes it more romantic when you communicate. Such as my man knows if I dont like something he wont hear a peep, and that is the clue to move on to another position...such on.
Also, if you do foreplay and you are the giver (I used to hate foreplay) get your self into it with toys so your man can share his feelings with toys to you. This way he learns on how to please you. You should be open with your husband in bed...not like there is an audience....
Try this and I promise you happyness!
2006-07-28 05:15:05 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Shut the bedroom door so your kid can't hear. If the bed is squeaky put the mattress on the floor. Whisper to him how nasty and good it feels. And tell him you love what he is doing to you and say you want more. good luck.
2006-07-28 05:12:12 · answer #3 · answered by Jacks036 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
every husband desires this thing.
but it needs to understand that like is not like porn film.
try to put ur child in some other room so that u can freely enjoy.
2006-07-28 05:13:38 · answer #4 · answered by Kumar 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my hubby tells me to be quiet - do what u need 2 do
2006-07-28 07:14:47 · answer #5 · answered by sam 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋