My fiance and I have been together for 8 almost nine months, and we have moved into together and everything else. We have a pretty good relationship most of time, even though the past two to three months have been rocky. Most of his family and I get along for the most part very well ,and they seem to have accepted me into their family. Except his aunt and cousin, for some reason they are under the impression I'm pregnant. Which I'm not and they keep spreading it around his family that I am and around work. They are starting to harass me. He knows I'm not and is getting pissed too, and we have offered to go to the doctor and take all of them with us to get them off our backs. My mom knows I'm not and I keep telling her not to get involved. What should we do? This has been going on for about two to three months. Help please. Should I let my mom get involved? Should we keep ignoring them?
2006-07-27 22:04:03 · 6 answers · asked by mandi88_bailey05_ray 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Ignoring them can only get you so far because aftre awhile you can't keep just letting them walk all over you.
2006-07-27 22:11:39 · update #1
Right keep ignoring them.In every relationship there will always be people who will come to meddle. Besides you can't please everybody. To stop the talks Maybe it is time that you both get married and the Lord will surely bless you more.
Pregnancy is a natural thing to occur when lovers stay together.
2006-07-27 22:16:10 · answer #1 · answered by Jeth L 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
hi, if you and your boyfriend are happy and your family and his immediate family accept the both of you and your relationship then nothing else matters. you know that you are not pregnant and that is all that matters. Jealousy gets people nowhere they will eventually know that they cant come between the two of you. just try to ignore them both. getting your mum involved will make matters worse.
2006-07-28 05:16:03 · answer #2 · answered by buttercup 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do let anyone to interfere to your marraig.Be strong two of you and leave your life
2006-07-28 05:14:08 · answer #3 · answered by Baby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They are just words. As long as you and your boyfriend are happy together then that is all that should matter.
2006-07-28 05:12:46 · answer #4 · answered by Wolfie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
.to avoid noise respect a fool. so just ignore them
2006-07-28 06:47:19 · answer #5 · answered by holy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes ignore them...cz theres not much u can do......
2006-07-28 05:08:34 · answer #6 · answered by angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋