i am personally a shy guy ... ther people that know me will say other wise ... but me i'm always putting myself down .... i'm start and all but i allways drag myself down and ....over analyze ... its how i get through the day...
but my question is really how do you get your ego up to talk to new people
2006-07-27 22:00:08 · 4 answers · asked by zujul 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
by this i mean self esteem and all that jazz and i overanalyze everthing like what if.... insert situation.......... wouldn't work or... you get the idea........i have trouble meeting the girls that want to meet me ... just because the think i don't like then and or i'm with my friends and its not like i don't want to talk with this person.... and they all say i should act first ... then just get turned down
2006-07-27 22:15:56 · update #1
Its not about your ego. Generally having a big or oversized ego is a BAD thing, especially to girls. Being conceited is not attractive. I like shy guys but being a typically shy girl myself I know where you are coming from. So again, its not your ego, its your self confidence and self-esteem. Why do you put yourself down? What's so bad about you? What exactly to you overanalyze. Maybe you just need a boost like the encouragement and support of a friend. And when you say new people, do you mean girls, or just friends in general. Try to keep in mind that there is at least one thing about every person that is simply A.M.A.Z.I.N.G. Try to spend some time figuring out what makes you wonderful, and less time over thinking every little thing. Keep your head held up high. Its not the end of the world. Just a temporary road block. Best of luck!! Hang in there!
2006-07-27 22:05:50 · answer #1 · answered by mlove1307 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Another lost soul trying to find a way out?
Let's say this one is still hopeful
Praying hard for some quick salvation
Easy as an answer from a perfect stranger?
Reasonable as it might be?
All right, now YOU KNOW the answer..
2006-07-28 05:03:53 · answer #2 · answered by Roland 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The problem and answer is YOU! You mentioned that you are shy but others think otherwise! Have more self-confident, be sincere and have a genuine interests in others. You should do fine after that.
2006-07-28 05:06:37 · answer #3 · answered by TK 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
destroy the ego..
we are the same..
we arnt anything special
we cant do anything that another couldnt do if they sat their mind on it...
you just say.... **** what that other person thinks.. they hve no right to judge.. lose the ego by showing humility
2006-07-28 05:07:04 · answer #4 · answered by red_samurai_dragon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋