My boyfriend, Jay, & I have an apartment. Last March, Jay went to the apt's poolhall and befriended the regulars. One of them is a girl, Bea who Jay thought was a lesbian, she's not feminine & hangs out with guys. Bea soon told Jay she loves him. Jay made it clear to Bea that he loves me and they're just friends. Bea is also a little slow & started telling her family & friends that Jay was her boyfriend. She turned my life into a nightmare with phone calls, texting I love you to Jay, sending love cards. She came up to me & told me that she had sex with Jay! which she later told me was a lie but she wished it was true. Jay changed his phone# & stopped going to the poolhall. He told Bea he never wants to see or talk to her again. I found out that she still says that Jay is her boyfriend. He hasn't had any contact with her in 3 months! Now I want to hurt Bea's feelings back. Jay told me to let it go & don't open any floodgates. Our real friends know the truth. We can't move for 5 months.
2006-07-24
09:15:46
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