Family & Relationships - 23 July 2006

Two years ago, my boyfriend was hanging out a lot with a girl who just wanted to be "friends with benefits." They were never even that, she used to play games and disrespect him, and never were officially girlfriend and boyfriend. He was so hurt by this girl that we can't even chill at the same places they were together at without him becoming anxious. He claims he is no longer in touch with her, but she occasionally tries to call him, perhaps to trigger his feelings again? He's always honest when she calls, and doesn't answer the phone. Lately, he's been talking about her again, and I told him not to because it's the past. Than if he doesn't mention her name, he talks about other things connected to her. My boyfriend tells me all the time how much he cares about me, and how he likes me because I'm not mean (like she was). But, I don't want our dates together to be about HER. I want them to be about US.

2006-07-23 01:27:10 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-07-23 01:24:52 · 12 answers · asked by always true & always nice : ) 2 in Singles & Dating

Suppose I had a sexy dream of Vin Diesel's sexy bod and for a couple of moments I did close my eyes and think of me with him, but while I was getting hot & heavy with my own guy (whom I dearly love and is just as hot).
Is this normal? Should I say anything? Do you think guys do this too?

2006-07-23 01:21:35 · 28 answers · asked by ? 3 in Marriage & Divorce

If she was big??...... on or off????
if she was Small????..... on or off???

2006-07-23 01:20:32 · 14 answers · asked by prettybee 2 in Singles & Dating

i mean nice and true friendship.

2006-07-23 01:18:24 · 1 answers · asked by Ayaz Ali 4 in Friends

How many times (a week) do u see a really gorgeous girl and NOT want to bang her... u just think she's beautiful...

2006-07-23 01:17:59 · 16 answers · asked by X box lady(who doesnt play Xbox) 2 in Singles & Dating

I bring her gifts for no reason, cook her favorite meals, care for her when she's sick. But when I say "I love you", she doesn't believe me.

2006-07-23 01:17:06 · 15 answers · asked by wudbiser 4 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband to be's mother dislikes me with a passion and has gone as far as to call me a golddigger among other atrocities. She is hung up on the way I was raised in a comfortable working class home. I have been nothing but nice and polite to her and my partner's father but to no avail she only sees me as taking away one of her sons. This women is impossible to talk to, irrational and over bearing...can anyone give me some advice please???

2006-07-23 01:16:46 · 21 answers · asked by gypsywife2b 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I was at my friends house using her computer to chat and I was logged in under her ID. I saw that my boyfriend was online and he started chatting with me like he knew me from before and he was really flirting with me(or actually my friend). Should I play with his head and invite him over to my friends house?

2006-07-23 01:15:07 · 26 answers · asked by ? 5 in Singles & Dating

Thanx great advice by all, but I havent given you the full picture she blames everybody for her mistakes, she is uncapable of making dissisions without blaming others. She wanted him out anyway she doesn't like him she, she told me once she hates him and wishes him dead, If you met her you would see how warped and sad she really is no friends, every thing she talks about is bad things that have happened to other people and then laughs and ridcules them she brings with her negitive attiude and calma she never smiles, she is just a walking misery, She was only defending this brother, because it would make me feel bad informing authorities on brother.

2006-07-23 01:13:45 · 7 answers · asked by nicecupofteanicecupofcoffee 2 in Family

2006-07-23 01:13:01 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

IM would you give in and talk to him...I think he still cares!

2006-07-23 01:11:42 · 9 answers · asked by simplythebest 1 in Weddings

2006-07-23 01:09:53 · 11 answers · asked by SANGEETHA 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-07-23 01:08:56 · 24 answers · asked by vinus 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-07-23 01:08:39 · 7 answers · asked by D B 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-07-23 01:05:30 · 17 answers · asked by wondering 4 in Singles & Dating

2006-07-23 01:05:05 · 2 answers · asked by Jargon 4 in Singles & Dating

my bf asked me out like 4 months ago and now he dosnt talk to me or even call me. but when i call him he says he still loves me. but he never comes over or anything.

2006-07-23 01:04:32 · 18 answers · asked by athena_baby22 1 in Singles & Dating

here is the thing i like this girl and she is my best friends sister and she lives with me,but it feels like she likes me..
here r some reasons and u tell me if u think she likes me..
1.she hits me all the time and a soft hit..
2.we wrestle the weird way like ur a couple like she gets on top of u..
there is 2 reasons but there r more but cant think of it..
plz help what should i do
if i ask her out,what if she says no,and she lives with me.
she has a boy friend in cali becuz she used to live down there but she moved in portland..

plz dont say im to young to date becuz i aint people at my school makeout in the hallways and stuff plz help.dont know what to do.....

2006-07-23 01:02:20 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

anyone help how to deal with a broken heart? and how to heal it? even though u aint break up with ur boyfriend yet but u know that you guys gonna break up REAL soon. I keep tellin myself that he aint worth it and i am not gonna call him but i just cant do it. i keep callin him every 5 hours. plz.. help me..

Dont tell me time take to heal. cuz it wont work for me.

2006-07-23 00:56:01 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

and are you for or against it?

2006-07-23 00:55:54 · 33 answers · asked by navyflyrz 2 in Singles & Dating

i'm a christian and a pastor's kid. being a christian is not really easy, i strrugle to have friends in school, they would discriminate me in a group and always doing name-calling. i tried to be tough but i can't!!!! one thing is that they would laugh at me whenever i recite at school!!! ... i can't help but to help myself... i had been experiencing a lot of depression these past few days... last night i tried to kill myself but it didn't happen because a visitor came to our house... can you pls. help me???

2006-07-23 00:54:33 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

all those whos b'day matches with mine will get 10 points.....................and if you want me to wish you on your b'day say truly?

2006-07-23 00:54:33 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Do you think that if you are molested by your father when you were a little girl does that affect you later in life? Should you get therapy or just bury it in the deep dark of your mind and not deal with it?

2006-07-23 00:50:53 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I want to learn the techniques because I have limited experience and not good enough acccording top my husband and How casn I forget he was married so no doubt his ex mi8ght have been better and I wanto know how I can be better as it is something i do not do all the time

2006-07-23 00:47:37 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-07-23 00:47:08 · 8 answers · asked by qwq 5 in Friends

she really loves this guy, they are engaged but he is married to another and has one other girlfriend.

she didn't know he was married until when she started visiting him at his house. He kept rejecting that he was married until far when she was so in love and couldn't leave.
comes the drama, she's been three times miscarriaged by him and she says, it feels like they are really going on.

she says, it appears like he is confuse about her, what he must do.
She says, she fears he might leave her for the other women.
please help her. discuss what she must do.

2006-07-23 00:46:58 · 15 answers · asked by Bif 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-07-23 00:46:44 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

M wheatish, tall, so so figure, nice features, talk well, well educated, working, good family background...

2006-07-23 00:46:43 · 13 answers · asked by alps 1 in Singles & Dating

My mother has been a stay in mom and we are all grown up now. Unfortunately she needs my father financially to survive. There is a possibility that she already knows. It isn't the first time.
I love them both very much...

2006-07-23 00:44:10 · 26 answers · asked by Odie 5 in Family