anyone help how to deal with a broken heart? and how to heal it? even though u aint break up with ur boyfriend yet but u know that you guys gonna break up REAL soon. I keep tellin myself that he aint worth it and i am not gonna call him but i just cant do it. i keep callin him every 5 hours. plz.. help me..
Dont tell me time take to heal. cuz it wont work for me.
2006-07-23 00:56:01 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
what abuot talking straight to ur bf about it. maybe u 2 can solve it out
2006-07-23 01:00:47 · answer #1 · answered by Devilish_chic31 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing stupid about fearing the impending loss of a love. I won't say to you that time will heal (though I know you will get over it). What I will tell you is to rush to the book store and get the book - "He's just not that into you" It was featured in Oprah 2 weeks ago and she highly recommends it to every woman. Go girl, if you mind is driving you crazy, to Amazon.com and read the synopsis and feel better today. Trust me on this one. Good luck!!!
2006-07-23 08:07:43 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to be strong, the first week is the hardest, then you make it through that week, then you make it through week 2 then 3. It will be hard, but you have to say to yourself that everything happens for a reason and by breaking up with this boy a better one is waiting, maybe not today or tomorrow, but he is out there. Go get a great hair cut, a new outfit anything to make you feel great, then one day you will wake up and he won't be the first thing you think about. Godd luck.
2006-07-23 08:05:13 · answer #3 · answered by Freckles 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him in person and break up with him as soon as possible. This will shorten the time of pain you'll feel.
Then get yourself busy with doing things with your girlfriends and doing service for others and a job, schoolwork, whatever. Get your mind off of him, and avoid the places that will bring the most painful memories. But most importantly, DO IT NOW.
2006-07-23 08:03:37 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen to a song by the Doobie Brothers called, "It Aint' Nothin' but a Heartache." It's on their album called "Livin' On the Fault Line." It got me through some rough times.
2006-07-23 08:03:02 · answer #5 · answered by dhkeys 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i feel what u feeling. life can be so confusing and complicating. seems like no matter which way you go, u lose. u gotta find a way to be a winner! i know it's hard! but this is reality for you ... you stay with him - U LOSE ... u leave him - U LOSE ... BE THE WINNER! HE AIN'T WORTH IT! U SAID SO YOURSELF! the day you find freedom from this, you'lll look back and see that when times seem difficult, confusing, complicated, these problems are almost solved with SIMPLE SOLUTIONS. in youor case, it's really as simple as ... DONT CALL HIM OR SPEAK TO HIM! sorry for yelling but i think sometime we need to speak loud so that people can hear waht were saying. i know your thinking ... it's not that simple! well, on the day you make it simple? is the day you'll leave him. good luck!!!
2006-07-23 08:19:47 · answer #6 · answered by hwisland808 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I did it by telling myself " she just lost the best thing she ever had"
and " I am better then this and deserve better and won't settle for less" This has worked for me but most the credit goes to God as he got me thru all the heartache. I have since met someone who thinks the world of me and is 100 % faithful. My problem now is the fear of marriage, but in time it may go away as I deal with it.
2006-07-23 08:07:12 · answer #7 · answered by kerryjonjon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I having many bad nasty horriable relationship can only say, if its not going to work the first time, it will never work, if he truely loves you then it will work, I wont say time heals all pain as most people would cos to me some pain can never heal but it can ease, if you keep throwing yourself to him you will keep getting thrown away, have a little more respet for yourself. Love yourself before you can love anyone else.
2006-07-23 08:03:40 · answer #8 · answered by fuzzy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am 29 years old, and i had my heart rip into pieces, and stump on. i dated my child father for over 8 years, we were going to get married, we had our own place. then after i was 3 months pregnant, he left me for someone so much younger and was so mean to me after that. he hurt me so bad.but i heal from it. it took time. but i did. i started hanging out with my friends, after my child was born. and i started dating again. but no matter what you will always love him and care for him. but you have to move on. you can't keep hoping that everything is going to be okay and back the way it was. my child father wanted us to work things out after two years of being broken up. i loved him, but i didn't love him that way anymore. there are so many other guys out there that will love you for who you are. and will treat you better then this guy. this is a part of life, we get hurt but we learn from it and grow strong from it.. you need to start meeting new people and start forgetting about him. do something that will take your mind off of him, and think about how much happier you will be without him, because with him right now. your hurt and not happy. you need to move on. and start living your life.
2006-07-23 08:08:05 · answer #9 · answered by kitty29 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For all broken hearts Time is the only medicine...i know you are fed up of people advicing you like that.....anyway try to concentrate on somethin else...if you are a student then concentrate on studies...if you are a employee then work hard...try not to think about your love....More you think is the more you waste your time after that....you start avoiding him(which is difficult)but you hav to do it dear....Distract yourself....this is the only way
2006-07-23 08:02:44 · answer #10 · answered by sheik_in 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then sit and feel sorry for yourself that should do the trick. Then keep running the entire doomed relationship over in your mind until you cry so much that your eyes hurt I really don't care what you do I don't even know you nor will I
2006-07-23 08:04:46 · answer #11 · answered by mr. Bob 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋