she really loves this guy, they are engaged but he is married to another and has one other girlfriend.
she didn't know he was married until when she started visiting him at his house. He kept rejecting that he was married until far when she was so in love and couldn't leave.
comes the drama, she's been three times miscarriaged by him and she says, it feels like they are really going on.
she says, it appears like he is confuse about her, what he must do.
She says, she fears he might leave her for the other women.
please help her. discuss what she must do.
2006-07-23 00:46:58 · 15 answers · asked by Bif 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Oooo look who's talking?
Miss 'welcoming-every-man' looks for a way out?
Go for a lesser degree of a man.. He'll chase you up after that
2006-07-23 01:17:44 · answer #1 · answered by Roland 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
The greatest relationship councilor in the world could not help her from this distorted chaos. She needs someone that writes "soap opera's" to write her a happy ending. There is no foundation at this point being made and with out a good solid beginning nothing else that is added in time will be secure. The blinders have to come off and she needs to look deep into her own heart, and ask this questions, ... "as bad as things are and have been since the beginning of this union, how could a man that lies, has a wife and another girlfriend, provide happiness for anyone"? He can't even find happiness for his self or he is so self absorbed his happiness is all he is thinking about! The only person you can count on to change, is yourself. As long as he views life the way he does, this will be a nightmare. He needs to make a choice on "ONE" woman. If he want make this choice than, your friend has to make her choice. The best choice would be be to distant her self from him, until he figures out what he really wants. If someone does not stand up to him, this will eventually become a "Harem". Everyday that the inevitable is put off, the harder it is going to be. When your friend takes total blame for not controlling her own life, she will not be happy with the decisions that others make for her. I hope the best out come, for all involved in this.
2006-07-23 01:57:48 · answer #2 · answered by smplyme132 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
3 On the go-- one of which he is already married to-one he promises to marry and the other-- i pressume is the hanger oner!! er doh!! why she would sleep with him, unprotected and miscarry 3 time-- Stupid girl I'm sorry but you don't fall for someone who has a wife, probably kids of his own and another bit on the side..
Wake up- leave the man alone he will never be yours, and if his current wife had any sense she would leave him too. The only thing going on is lies and deceit. If it were me i'd be long gone by now wouldn't give him the choice
2006-07-23 01:09:07 · answer #3 · answered by Scatty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Aaah poor girl. She must be hurting bad in her heart. To be engaged to a married man who has another woman besides herself.
This man is a player - he doesn't care anything for her. He is married, he has another girlfriend besides her - he won't change, he doesn't love her, he is using her - he will always do it. She must be strong and get rid of him. Stop seeing him now because his wife is suffering too. How would she like it if he was her husband and he had two other women in his life. Oh dear - poor wife. Your friend is a fool I'm sorry to say. She must be strong and give him up.
He will say loads of things to her to keep her around but he is using her as he does to the other one - give him up.
2006-07-23 01:11:07 · answer #4 · answered by Curious39 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that person should dump this guy before he dumps her. and if he is married think of it this way once a cheater always a cheater. if he is married and cheats on his wife with this girl think he will cheat on that girl with who ever and whenever he feels like he has found someone better than you or this girl. and if this girl love him which she must if they are engaged it will hurt but love is blind and don't let the wolf in sheep's clothes pull the wool over this girls eyes.remember
ONCE A CHEATER ALWAYS A CHEATER
DITCH YOUR ZERO AND GET YOU A HERO
2006-07-23 01:19:01 · answer #5 · answered by over the top 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she's a drama junkie and needs to get her life back. even nature is against this relationship. some councelling and a new life is needed. she's inviting the trouble into her life and it probably makes her feel alive. she should think about this'life is not a rehearsal..this is it..one performance..why not make it a smash hit rather than a flop?'
2006-07-24 00:21:50 · answer #6 · answered by minerva 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get out of there fast. This man is a scumbag of the lowest order; all he thinks about is how many women he can get pregnant, has no responsibility to the children or the women. What about his wife in all this???? This girl is not in love, she is certifiably insane. If youre her friend, get her out of there.
2006-07-23 03:33:39 · answer #7 · answered by k0005kat@btinternet.com 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump him, he's a dime a dozen on the street corner.
2006-07-23 01:17:01 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
forget about the whole thing its too complex and tangled you need to free yourself from all bondages and it lies in your hands, its just a decision
2006-07-23 00:58:08 · answer #9 · answered by JBOY 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump him he is selfish and uncaring especially if he has another girlfriend as well.
2006-07-23 12:41:35 · answer #10 · answered by seu_seh 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋