Family & Relationships - 21 July 2006

my ex was not a nice fella, he ws very demanding and controlling, jealous and had the worst temper ever. but apart from that i am convinced he loved me but yet i never loved him. we broke up after one particularly bad argument where he wouldnt let me talk to his mate because he was a boy, he then went on to throw chairs, and punch the tables and walls etc so i got pretty scared and thought to myself that i ddint have to put myself through this. we stayed friends for a while after we broke up but it just wasnt working out, i met a nice new fella but my ex ruined it by "warning" this guy about me, he told a lot of lies. i decided friends wouldnt work so i stopped talking to him. now he wont leave me alone, he rings my best mates and talks for hours and hours about how i wont be his mate when i tried and tried and tried, but it just woudlnt work. i just want him outa my life. i dont know what to do

2006-07-21 04:59:29 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I don't understand homophobes. How is it anybody's business what turns someone else on? Especially a stranger. What do you care really? They aren't sleeping with you!

2006-07-21 04:59:24 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Okay so my me and my boyfriend have been together for five months tomorrow!! and i never really do anything for him on our anniversaries, so i really want to do something for him or get him something tomorrow!! Do yall have any good ideas?

*having sex is not really an option, thats like an everyday thing!!:)

2006-07-21 04:58:33 · 14 answers · asked by *Ivette* 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-07-21 04:58:28 · 5 answers · asked by Luminouz Knight 1 in Singles & Dating

is it ok to slap a guy if he insults you or is it better to just throw a drink in his face

2006-07-21 04:57:59 · 71 answers · asked by princess lisa 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-07-21 04:57:53 · 4 answers · asked by Matt 1 in Friends

even from guys? i thought they loved that stuff

2006-07-21 04:57:53 · 18 answers · asked by hot chicky 1 in Singles & Dating

I was 16.

2006-07-21 04:57:42 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Is same sex marriage ok? why?

2006-07-21 04:56:26 · 7 answers · asked by 96.7 KCAL ROCKS!!! 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-07-21 04:55:42 · 16 answers · asked by Dina B 1 in Singles & Dating

people that were given up for adoption? My mom had two boys before I was born and she gave them up for adoption (she was only 16). They are my half brothers and I really want to find them. They were adopted in San Luis Obispo, CA and their parents moved them to Europe, I think. They named one Johann and the other I don't know. How do I find them? I would be overjoyed to meet my brothers. 10 pts for whoever helps me the most. Thank you all!

2006-07-21 04:55:40 · 4 answers · asked by 1big teddy graham 4 in Family

2006-07-21 04:55:22 · 8 answers · asked by brianlefttoe 4 in Singles & Dating

2006-07-21 04:55:22 · 19 answers · asked by Curious 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

C'mon fess up!

2006-07-21 04:55:18 · 4 answers · asked by Humility 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

right, heres the story. last night i was out at a club and i was pretty drunk, not out of control but just having a fun time. i ended up kissing this fella paul who is a friend of the few guys that i was wih. basically i kissed him just before we went home. hes very nice, and a sound fella. but then i went home and my friend david (whose a boy) text me and said that he really liked me but so did paul and what was i going to do. i really like david, or at least i did for a long while....now i have a chance with him but i dunno what to do cos paul seems really nice too.

please help

2006-07-21 04:55:16 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-07-21 04:55:09 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I am married but separated from my estranged husband, He does not support me in any way. Years ago I found out that he was having a baby by someone else because I left him. ( I honestly got feed up with him) He was not there for me in anyway and sometimes he didnt even come home. He would hit me ;not enough to bruise me but hit me all the same, I wasnt often but it did happen, everything I did was not enough for him, I moved in with his entire family when we were wed and I just proved to be to much, after that I had a child by him and we just weren't ready. The relationship obviously took a turn for the worst and has been spiraling down hill ever since. The entire family knew but said nothing to me so my relationship with them is awful. We still talked and were intimate during our breakup I had no Idea he had moved on. I want a divorce but can't afford one, I want to take him to court for child support but because of my past I feel it would compromise my health and well being.

2006-07-21 04:55:01 · 8 answers · asked by Latoya E 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Do you believe that you can fall in love with someone at first sight and have it last a life time.

2006-07-21 04:54:17 · 15 answers · asked by sophie 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-07-21 04:53:41 · 17 answers · asked by inyasha 2 in Friends

Do ya like the "morning glory"? or do ya prefer to take a shower and get cleaned up b4???

2006-07-21 04:53:39 · 42 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-07-21 04:53:09 · 26 answers · asked by lilgigglez2207 1 in Family

My boyfriend and I have a great relationship. There is just one major flaw that I can't seem to get past. Whenever he decides that he is going out (mostly to drink) he doesn't come home that night. I usually don't end up seeing him until late morning the following day. Sometimes it has even been late afternoon or early evening. I don't mind that he goes out but it would be nice if he would come home. He says that by me getting mad at him for not coming home it makes him stay out.(??) Sometimes he calls but more often then not I don't hear from him at all. At first I used to worry, now that it's such a regular occurance it just makes me mad. This behavior of his usually happens at least once a week. I have tried to talk to him about it, but it normally just turns into a big fight. What should I do about this, and how can I make him see that what he is doing is really not 'normal' in a relationship???

2006-07-21 04:52:44 · 2 answers · asked by bunnie17479 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-07-21 04:52:19 · 2 answers · asked by gokoys 1 in Singles & Dating

P.S im like 20 so im not a little kid

2006-07-21 04:51:20 · 13 answers · asked by Akeysha 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-07-21 04:50:20 · 10 answers · asked by chdman 3 in Friends

I told him unless he's better WE can't get better. he is a very negative person, along with other things that affect people around him. I have tried to help but it is pulling me down. So, I told him we need time away from each other to have that freedom and time to find ourselves and get help. if everything is okay with him, we will be OK. Did I just tell him I WILL get back with him if he's well again??
I want time to find myself and find my happiness, meaning also date other ppl if I meet someone. But I didn't mention that b/c I was afraid of his scary reaction and, we have limited funds and he watches my daughter's during the day and we just moved in with MY parents. I feel stuck regardless.
How do I get out? and what just happened?
Thanks.

2006-07-21 04:50:13 · 8 answers · asked by fiestygirl 3 in Marriage & Divorce

How many people out there can honestly say that they are true and sincere friends to other people and not back stabbers?

2006-07-21 04:50:11 · 20 answers · asked by sophie 2 in Friends

For anyone who has divorced parents....how old were you when it happened? I was only 2 years old and never knew what that "normal" family life was like... my question is... do you think its easier for children to deal with divorce at a younger age?

2006-07-21 04:49:24 · 8 answers · asked by perkyash2005 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Anyone else completly addicited to myspace like me? What about all the other one? R there any better? Share ur myspace address w/ me too if u want

2006-07-21 04:48:50 · 16 answers · asked by ? 2 in Singles & Dating

My wife thinks that sex 1 time per month (or two) is good enough. It is unbelievably hard not to just leave and find another woman. It seems that every woman that I talk to tells me that their husband does not give them enough. Every time I bring it up that I need more sex she just gets mad so I will shut up about it, I do not know how much longer that I can stand this...(I have been married for thirteen years, she has never been very sexual, just kind-of laying there you know...)

2006-07-21 04:48:29 · 21 answers · asked by 57chevy 3 in Marriage & Divorce