2006-07-21 04:58:28 · 5 answers · asked by Luminouz Knight 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I was as shy as you seem to be Then I learned that when you thing to much of what to say you end up dumb stricken, nothing else to say and end up looking like a fool. My advice to you is just see every girl as a friend, because as soon as you start seeing them as Beauty queens and princesses, you star having doubts about yourself and that's what shyness is. Tell your self no girl is too good for you. Even Jeniffer Lopez and Ally Berry are normal people like me and you.
i know you have friends who are females think of when you first talked to them. Just don't come on too strong because some girls are aggressive when the first words from a guys lips are I like you because they will only hear SEX, but instead start with simple friendly conversation they like that and just let the cards fall in place a girl would be more quick to give her phone number to someone she think she can talk to than to someone trying to get in her panties. Some girls like when a guy is straight forward though, but it's safer to start soft and see what kind of person she is.
I often have to change my cellular and fight off some girls because I am such a nice guy and I am not that Beautiful either. I am just a very good listener and I give good advice.
The secret is just be really friendly and nice, girls love good guys, they don't like Mr. player.
2006-07-21 05:34:28 · answer #1 · answered by Don Dameon 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be like Nike: Just do it! Everybody fears rejection. That girl who made a joke out of it is a major jerk and you shouldn't have let her get to you; she wasn't worth your time. The other girl didn't realize what a great guy you are. But that's her loss. What girl absolutely love is confidence and if you show her that you are (whether or not you really are) she'll appreciate that a lot. Just do it because if she says no, that's her loss; you can move on to someone else. But if she says yes (and I really hope she does!!) do something you both enjoy, maybe a movie and dinner. And when you pick her up (don't meet her there; that's a little too casual in my opinion) bring her some roses in red or pink (more towards pink here and not yellow-that symbolizes friendship). When she sees them, she's likely to gush a little, which will up your confidence. :) I hope you get the girl!! Rhonda
2016-03-16 03:03:01 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You overcome shyness and nervousness by building confidence. You can build your confidence in many ways, but perhaps the best confidence-builder is to do good work. Work hard on your academics... do your chores responsibly... show up on time for work, school, and social events. As your confidence builds, you will find yourself becoming confident in other areas of your life... like being able to walk up to a girl and say "Hi."
2006-07-21 05:07:34 · answer #3 · answered by Mike S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just come up to a girl that doesnt look like an absolute brat and just say something like can i talk to you cuse my friends are being idiots? and just talk to her, just talk to all girls. they love to have guys pay attention to them and you will be able to overcome your shyness!
2006-07-21 05:01:26 · answer #4 · answered by Gunrad 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just go up to the girls and tell them you like them. that's what i did. mind you they were already taken and I didn't know that. Just quit acting so shy. go to the mirror and say F*** YOU SHYNESS AND NERVOUSNESS!
YOU CAN DO IT!!!!!!!!
2006-07-21 05:03:15 · answer #5 · answered by Tony B 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just be yourself....talk to them as if you're talking to your sister...everything would turn out smooth...we love to be the center of attention.
2006-07-21 05:02:51 · answer #6 · answered by Jenifer O 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋