Family & Relationships - 19 July 2006

if ur whipped:
1.u do whatever they say
2.u always take the blame even though u dont
3.u would say yes to anything they tell u to do
4.u listen to them
5.u buy them everything they want
6.they hurt u but u dont care.. just as long as u have them ur fine.
7.they always win the fight
8.u let them have the most important thing to u
9.u know they take u for granted but u still dont care

... if u are stop it now before they break ur heart.

this happend to my best friend.. and i dont want n e one else to feel the same way.

2006-07-19 15:21:32 · 20 answers · asked by libby 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-07-19 15:21:14 · 3 answers · asked by iamlaura2006 1 in Singles & Dating

i have a three and a half year old who has had to sleep in our room in her own bed because we had someone living with us. now my sister moved out and we want to put our daughter back in her room. the problem is she just recently, well, like three months ago, started being afraid of the dark. we have tried8 putting in a night light, giving her a flashlight, radio, decorating her room, and she refuses. the thing with her is that she has not slept in her own room since she was a year old and she gave us a terrible time then. my daughter has a horrible temper. she will scream and cry until she throws up, then she will scream and cry some more. she will just stand there and dry heave . i am due in 7 weeks and need to put her in the room already. she will share a room with her baby sister, she does not know this yet, we ahve not even set up any baby things yet. when we ask her if she is excited to be a big sister she says no that she is happy being herself. help me please!:(

2006-07-19 15:21:13 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2006-07-19 15:20:41 · 16 answers · asked by jane d 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-07-19 15:20:21 · 5 answers · asked by Anthony 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-07-19 15:18:38 · 36 answers · asked by tatojavier 1 in Singles & Dating

i have a lot of trouble, usually i hide and stare with my friends at the guy i like, but how do i get any guy to like me? im not wierd.

2006-07-19 15:18:32 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I''m a recovering alcoholic and and have no social life anymore. I can't seem to make any friends at all in AA, and I don't think I will ever get over my ex-girlfriend unless I start dating someone else.

I've tried MATCH.COM and another site, but I always get the same answer, sometimes immediately. Either women:

1. Just don't want to date anyone that's a recovering addict/alcoholic.

2. Don't want to date anyone that doesn't drink.

I was just hoping someone could tell me why?

I'm 45, single, live alone and a pretty nice guy. Women in recovery generally don't date men in recovery. I don't think i'll ever find a wife.

It's been a few years now, and I find myself so lonely that I think of suicide alot.

My question is, since I can't seem to meet anyone by telling the truth, should I just lie about my alcoholism?

2006-07-19 15:18:19 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Well we have a pretty good relationship, since she found out that her treatment failed she has compltly isolated herself from the world, she doesnt want to talk to anyone or see anyone, she just sits in her room and does nothing. As her girlfriend what should i do, give her space or be by her side. She keeps saying she doesnt want to speak to anyone or see anyone. I cant talk to her because she does not know how to communicate her feelings, She has depression and has had it for years. She has become mean to me and can get cruel at times.She went into hospital on Sunday and came out yesterday,tomorrow is our aniversary and my birthday party and shes not interested. What do I do?

2006-07-19 15:18:17 · 2 answers · asked by mel p 1 in Singles & Dating

ok well my girlfriends mom said i was but she like hates me but ok today me and her were supposed to hang out and her uncle and cousin want her to go fishing with them she hardly ever gets to do it but i got mad about it not really mad but like sad because i was looking forward to seeing her today soo what do you guys think possessive or not

Also i sometimes when im sad and stuff i say things to bring her down i hate that about me i want to change that soo bad any one got any tips for me thanks

2006-07-19 15:17:39 · 17 answers · asked by brandon8020 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

A good sense of humor when you first start dating someone. I used to have a good one until I went to Iraq (or so people say). During my tour, I began to look at some pretty awful things humorously, and a lot of girls don't like it. It's how I coped with the realities of war, and I don't try to do it now that I'm home, but sometimes it just comes out in conversation. I'm not a cold person, and It's not like I make fun of death in general. Is this a deal breaker, or are girls willing to overlook something like that?

2006-07-19 15:15:55 · 30 answers · asked by Incorrectly Political 5 in Singles & Dating

2006-07-19 15:15:32 · 16 answers · asked by Linda R 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

i have been in a relationship 3 years now and when me and him argue he turns it on me and blames me for everything. he don't take me out or anything he works all the time, but when i say something about him working he puts me down and treats me like anything and driving my car. seems like to me i always give in so what should i do?

2006-07-19 15:14:45 · 3 answers · asked by caramel 2 in Singles & Dating

This question came up at work today; just curious about what others thought. It is strange, especially when the guy claims that he loves his wife or g/f.

2006-07-19 15:14:31 · 9 answers · asked by JEFFAVEGRL 4 in Singles & Dating

i have been working as of programmer for 5 years and i ilke my job, now i got this money from inheritance and i don't know what should i do in my life and how can i set my future goals. (i am confused) what is your opinion and recommendation?

2006-07-19 15:14:20 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

You see there's a girl that i like but i made her very mad i want to say i'm very sorry beacuse i don't want her to be mad at me so any ideas on how i could say i'm sorry. Maybe a text msg or something like that so please help me! Thank You!

2006-07-19 15:13:10 · 10 answers · asked by JONATHAN V 1 in Singles & Dating

could you tell me why or why not? love or respect. why dont men tell women what is on their minds? we are not mind readers and we need to get a better understanding of each other.

2006-07-19 15:13:06 · 13 answers · asked by cmac 3 in Marriage & Divorce

when you tongue kiss you move your tongue in the motion of a circle?? i no there has 2 be more

2006-07-19 15:12:40 · 12 answers · asked by monie 1 in Singles & Dating

what do you whant more great sex or a great relationship

2006-07-19 15:11:56 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

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2006-07-19 15:10:01 · 16 answers · asked by Nikki 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-07-19 15:10:01 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

im in love with clinton and hes in love with me but we havent met but it seems we have its really really sweet and i totaly changed my whold attiude bout life i used to be a bad gurl and now im a cowgurl and he said im his lil angel and we r moving in together in 8 mounths because its long distance but we call each other all the time today we stayed on the phone from 9:30 till 5:30 and i think is one of them great internet things but my friends worry should they be worried or should i got with my heart on this one

2006-07-19 15:07:49 · 16 answers · asked by lollipop 101 2 in Singles & Dating

me and my bf broke up a while back now we are together but he is bac to his old ways of flirtin. he told me dis girl wanna *** him and he said he aint sure if he gne do it or not i was hurt. u c ima virgin and am not ready for that stuff. now he wont answer my calls he said he hates me and i didnt do anything i hope he didnt *** that gurl now a real nice boy is askin me out but i always wanted to go with tha otha boy but he didnt treat me right now the nice boy is my ex but he has a quick temper but is so sweet and kind now im afraid ima lose both of them now im with the flirtatious boy we used to b in love i dnt kno what happened

2006-07-19 15:07:39 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

as a married women I like to experiment with sex with my husband and I am concidering a threesome with my husband him and another woman is that wrong to do ? I would love to experimant like that I'm sure my husband will enjoy that . please everyonr answer my question..........

2006-07-19 15:07:17 · 6 answers · asked by E.M. 4 in Marriage & Divorce

he lives right next to my grandma's house so if he says no i dont want it to be awkward when i se him.

2006-07-19 15:07:09 · 2 answers · asked by Sara D 1 in Singles & Dating

My wife just had a baby 2 months ago, and she has the worst mood swings what can I do to help her through this, without killing myself??? lol

2006-07-19 15:05:51 · 19 answers · asked by dolby 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-07-19 15:05:34 · 17 answers · asked by Yzma 3 in Singles & Dating

I just broke up with an ex best friend, ex boyfriend. I want to know if he really cares, and it seems like he doesn't because he hasn't called or tried to call anyway. And I'm here killing myself looking at my phone all the time...What can I do? Does he care or he doesn't care?

2006-07-19 15:04:23 · 6 answers · asked by dewdropinn 3 in Singles & Dating

I like this guy, but he doesn't notice I excist. At least I'd don't think so.

2006-07-19 15:03:52 · 18 answers · asked by lil mizz perfect!! 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-07-19 15:01:43 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating