Am i possesive?

Question

ok well my girlfriends mom said i was but she like hates me but ok today me and her were supposed to hang out and her uncle and cousin want her to go fishing with them she hardly ever gets to do it but i got mad about it not really mad but like sad because i was looking forward to seeing her today soo what do you guys think possessive or not

Also i sometimes when im sad and stuff i say things to bring her down i hate that about me i want to change that soo bad any one got any tips for me thanks

You guys are all reading it wrong i didnt get mad we didnt hang out im fine with that like yeah i want her to have fun and stuff but i got upset because i was really looking forward to it i didnt get mad i understand why she picked them idk im stupid i guess but thanks to everyone who already posted answers

Answer 1

You need to let her do her own thing or else she is going to get sick of you soon. It's good that you are realizing that what you are doing is not good.. especially when u say things to bring her down. You have to calm down and think before you talk. The way you are being will eventually get worse and probably become physical ...you definitely don't want that. Just relax, think things through before saying anything and treat her good always! Good Luck!

Answer 2

I think you might of been over reacting some what.You say when your sad and stuff you say things to hurt her or bring her down,to me that is selfish. The old saying is "Misery loves company." You can change that about yourself if you really and truly want to try hard.You need to practice it and as time goes by you will accept
her and you the way you will be in the future.Growing pains but they are worth it.

Answer 3

Yeah, grow up. Quit laying guilt trips out. Take the palm of your hand and smack yourself around a bit, you deserve it! Your girlfriend is not a 'thing' to be possessed. You ever ridden a horse? The tighter you hold the reins, the slower it goes.

Answer 4

a little controlling perhaps you need to get a grip on your feelings and the things you say to her because she will end up leaving you if you become over zelous and possesive of her i know you probbably really in love and want to see her allt he time but look at it this way you have the rest of your life to see her or whom ever else famiyl is important you dont want her family to start disliking you that will bring the two of you apart

Answer 5

You know well that you are possesive. There is nothing wrong about being possessive. Being possessive is just a feeling of loosing. Tell yourslef not to do anything or say anything hush that will hurt others. when you are in that mood.

Answer 6

You need to put yourself in her situation & think how you would feel if it were her doing the same thing to you. Instead of bringing her down, let her bring you up. If she doesn't make you happy your with her for the wrong reasons.

Answer 7

possesive, you just need to grow up and think of others, in the long runyour true friends will be around, continue being possesive and you wont have any friends

Answer 8

yes iam sorry but u r kinda possesive....u got 2 let her breath....try not 2 b sad bout her doin stuff...if u really like her den u suldn't b puttin her down lik dat bcuz u want da best 4 her rememba....juz rememba dat

Answer 9

yes, and no, your are manipulative, just because she can't go with you, You make her feel bad so she will not have fun, and you know she will be miserable the same as you, and if you are like that since you started seeing each other then you need help.

Answer 10

your not possesive you just have a couple of emotional issues that you need to work out etween yourselves