if ur whipped:
1.u do whatever they say
2.u always take the blame even though u dont
3.u would say yes to anything they tell u to do
4.u listen to them
5.u buy them everything they want
6.they hurt u but u dont care.. just as long as u have them ur fine.
7.they always win the fight
8.u let them have the most important thing to u
9.u know they take u for granted but u still dont care
... if u are stop it now before they break ur heart.
this happend to my best friend.. and i dont want n e one else to feel the same way.
2006-07-19 15:21:32 · 20 answers · asked by libby 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I think a lot of people allow themselves to be "whipped" because they don't have the confidence to stand up for themselves or the ability to be independent. Good relationships should not have one partner dominate all the decisions and emotions. Mutual respect for one another is always a key to happiness. In an ideal world, if someone's partner took them for granted, they would get dumped immediatley for showing a lack of appreciation. I feel so sorry for your best friend, and thanks for getting the word out to people who might be in the same situation as her!
2006-07-19 15:27:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
I wasn't whipped, I argued my points and even emailed supporting evidence when I had time. I did things I wanted to do and if they chose not to come, I still had a great time. I was however very naive. I actually believed that they were getting a divorce. And to top it all off, when that piece of $hit decided to run off in the night like an honourless dog, it was without notice and get this, that fvcker stole my car!
2006-07-19 22:27:44 · answer #2 · answered by practical thinking 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was whipped and we hurt each other a lot, but oh well. too bad i didn't see your post 4 years ago.
better to have loved and lost than to have never lost at all right?
2006-07-19 22:27:58 · answer #3 · answered by dancinginplace 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, actually I'm single. And if I were dating someone, or married, I wouldn't be whipped like that. Some of those are just crazy.
2006-07-19 22:25:48 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry sometimes its not called whipped,its called l o v e.and it does hurt win its only one sided,i wish ure girl lots of luck n the future,n mayb this time around she will find somone who loves her to.
2006-07-19 22:28:11 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Libby,
I like the insight you have...we don't always live by it but then they would not call it experience for nothing.
By the way, that's a cute pic of you!
2006-07-19 22:25:46 · answer #6 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no not whipped thats why she left me some women look for guys to punish them for they dads not being their she was abusive she did break my heart
2006-07-19 22:39:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope. Have had one for 5 months.
2006-07-19 22:29:39 · answer #8 · answered by nuttyp16 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I feel like that at times!
2006-07-19 22:24:53 · answer #9 · answered by hrry_tws 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nope, i am not whipped and neither is he, we have a equal and loving relationship, we can admit when we are wrong, and share.
2006-07-19 22:23:34 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋