i have a lot of trouble, usually i hide and stare with my friends at the guy i like, but how do i get any guy to like me? im not wierd.
2006-07-19 15:18:32 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just b urself dont b some 1 else bcuz if u arent urself the guy will like u 4 some who ur faking 2 b just b urself and the rite guy will fall in luv with u 4 who u r instead of pretending 2 b like somebody else dont change! start talking 2 them start as friends get 2 know them a little bit and c where it goes 4rm there ur not wierd ur normal a lot of ppl r like u me b ing 1 of them just talk 2 him it never hurts 2 try and if u dont u'll alwayz regret it !bcuz u dont know wut could have happened!
2006-07-19 15:29:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be yourself. and be open. Guys generally find girls who are closed and tight lipped, etc. to be unapproachable. It's not a matter of you not being attractive in that case, it's a matter of guys being intimidated. Guys will never admit it, but we're VERY easily intimidated by women, specifically those who aren't overtly friendly or approachable. So the biggest thing is just to be nice and make it seem like you'd be interested in talking or hanging out with us.
2006-07-19 22:23:26 · answer #2 · answered by yehoman 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try walking over and talking to him. Talk to him the same way that you would talk to a friend (not nervous). Hiding and staring makes you look like a stalker; it seems strange to some people.
2006-07-19 22:22:12 · answer #3 · answered by Randy G 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We cannot control the behavior and thinking of others so I suggest thinking about your question a bit differently. I believe that if you figure out what is important to you and invest yourself into that, you will like/love yourself more and will also find the like minded guy who will adore the true you. Good luck.
2006-07-19 22:29:59 · answer #4 · answered by Bullwinkle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, the big thing that guys notice is LOOKS. I don't think its so shallow. Its just the thing we notice about girls we do not know. You could also seek out opportunities to hang out with guys. Guys can be turned on by other things such as character, attitude, maturity, similiar interests, ... etc...
2006-07-19 22:25:04 · answer #5 · answered by lend322 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give guys an opportunity to come up to you. Not all guys are like Hitch and will come up to a girl in a crowd. Move closer give him a chance. You are sure to see results.
Oh, and girls, anyone can do this....
2006-07-19 22:22:46 · answer #6 · answered by BigDaddy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be yourself. I would say don't be shy, but then you wouldn't be being yourself, would you? Well, I mean to be yourself without worrying what others think. That is the most attractive personality to everyone. People like to be around others who are themselves and don't care if others don't like it.
2006-07-19 22:22:35 · answer #7 · answered by motorcyclegrandmama 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
most guys love attention This means talking to them smiling and so forth Almost any guy you talk to daily can "learn" to like you You have to talk about stuff they like cars bikes wrestling or movies Find out his likes and dislikes Remember attention and guys are dumb so they are easy to manipulate
2006-07-19 22:32:06 · answer #8 · answered by Jefferson S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Normal but aliitle insecure. Find out who you really are and then be you and the guys will find you very likeable and enen challenging.
So grow and enjoy your life!!!
2006-07-19 22:23:18 · answer #9 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing to do is just talk to him. Find out what he likes and ask him about it..clothes, sports, job, hobbies, things like that....
2006-07-19 22:22:46 · answer #10 · answered by wizzard 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋