My girl jus got out of hospital with a failed result. She has isolated herself & is depressed..can you help me

Question

Well we have a pretty good relationship, since she found out that her treatment failed she has compltly isolated herself from the world, she doesnt want to talk to anyone or see anyone, she just sits in her room and does nothing. As her girlfriend what should i do, give her space or be by her side. She keeps saying she doesnt want to speak to anyone or see anyone. I cant talk to her because she does not know how to communicate her feelings, She has depression and has had it for years. She has become mean to me and can get cruel at times.She went into hospital on Sunday and came out yesterday,tomorrow is our aniversary and my birthday party and shes not interested. What do I do?

Answer 1

she is mad because of the circumstances. so she will take it out on the ones closest to her.
you need to reinforce your love for her and tell her shes not alone.
ask her this" would you rather spend the rest of your life hating and being angry or would rather spend it with someone who, loves so much that i will never abandon you, loving each other till the end.
of course you have to be prepared to make that commitment.
every morning and every night tell her you love her.
its your birthday tomorrow spend it with her, tell her there nowhere else you would rather be then with her.

Answer 2

call her