There are some typical reasons which do not seem to me as reasonable ones:
1. Love: Nowadays, love is just like a shadow-it is seen but unreal. People say, "God loves the world; I love you; let's make love;" and so on. We can hardly differ love, emotion, mere ambition, or even lust. It is said, "Love a big illusion".
2. Procreation: You don't have to get married to have babies, right? Well, many people say it is disgraceful to have a baby before marriage, but if having kids is the only purpose of marriage, you will get upset. Besides, our most of problems in the world were not caused by lack of quantity in human resources, but by lack of quality of them.
3. To find someone who helps us in the rest of our life: Basically, nobody will help you better than yourselves. Of course we need some help, but if we do not help orselves, nobody will help us.
4. To avoid sex before marriage: It is just like escaping form one crisis and running to another more severe crisis.
2006-07-14
18:24:52
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