Family & Relationships - 13 July 2006

First of all to get the whole picture... I breastfed my daughter. When my daughter was 2 or 3 months old mine and my husband's family, and my grandfather and step grandmother (known her all my life) and of course, my daughter, my husband and I were over at my mother's house for either Thanksgiving. That being said, my step grandmother and I were talking on the phone about 4 months after that and my step grandmother says to me, "I want to tell you something, but I'm embarrassed. It was something Kailey did and Papa and I thought it was really sweet. I'm afraid to tell you, you won't get mad, will you?" By this time I was begging to know what it was. She said.... these are HER words, " when we were all over at your mom's house at Thanksgiving, I was holding Kailey and she started rooting towards me and I was real clean and everything and I've got big ole nipples and she just went to town! Papa and I thought it was sweet." I WAS FREAKING OUT. She says that it's normal. I DISAGREE!

2006-07-13 10:35:03 · 21 answers · asked by Heather 4 in Family

My friend is 15,and has been going out with this guy for almost 5 months,yet already he has told that they have slept together 3 times.He is not the type to make up stories or lie and he only told his best friend who let it slip to us.How do I know this is true and what signs can I look for?She is not the type to tell me.

2006-07-13 10:34:59 · 25 answers · asked by Jesi 1 in Singles & Dating

I just graduated from high school, and will be attending schoolcraft college. I curently stay with my mom but she's getting ready to move to ohio and i don't want to move there with her because of school. I have a choice to move in with my dad but thats not what i want to do because i don't like staying there for many reasons. My mom said that her and her new husband will pay for half the rent while my roomate pays for the other half and together we have to take care of everything else. I don't have a problem with i'n actually for the idea but my dad don't seem to think that i'm ready, he thinks that i should wait a year save some money then get an apartment that sounds like a good i dea too, but the thing is i don't want to stay with him, and there's really nobody else that i would perfer to stay with i'm confused..........

2006-07-13 10:34:55 · 13 answers · asked by Sky 1 in Family

My boyfriend (who I have been dating a little over two years now) went on a camping trip this weekend with his buds. I noticed that he wrote "Rit." and "Vic." on his list of things to pack. Curious, I asked him what the abbreviations meant. He hesitantly told me that "Rit." stood for "Ritalin" and "Vic." stood for "Vicodin." Now, I know my boyfriend does not have A.D.D., nor is he in serious or compelling pain. Obviously his intentions were to use the prescription drugs recreationally with his friends. He admitted that in the past he has taken these drugs "just for fun" and that it was "no big deal." He also said that he doesn't do it all the time. However, I am disappointed because I never intended to date a person who does drugs (even once in a while), especially at the mature age of 26. In my heart I know it's not right. I still love him very much... what should I do?

2006-07-13 10:34:21 · 6 answers · asked by HygirL 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

i've been a single mom for 13 yrs, now my son just moved to go be w/his dad ...but i feel like i have failed as a mom to him ..even tho he reminds that i am a great mom to him and his 3 lil sister...he just wants a stronger relationship w/his dad,thats what he keeps telling me..so i allowed him to go for only 1 yr..then he is coming back to do all high school w/me ..does anyone have similar situations or suggestions for me ..

2006-07-13 10:33:11 · 6 answers · asked by DaNeLLe 2 in Family

I haven't spoken to my mother in about 3 glorious years , she has an issue with me cause I got married , had 2 kids , and well i'm a award winning hairdresser, and she can't tell me what to do she hates my kids, me and my husband I think that my mom is just jealous, I'm happy and still married, but she even hates her own sisters whom I stay in contact with she hates me more for that I was wondering if I'm the only one who feels that way toward there mother , trust me I live my like to the fullest without her..

2006-07-13 10:33:01 · 2 answers · asked by E.M. 4 in Family

2006-07-13 10:31:53 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-07-13 10:31:07 · 6 answers · asked by FTM and proud 1 in Friends

I've had this best friend for about 6 yrs and we are just about to enter high school The thing is we only went to school together in 2nd grade and then i moved.
so we both made new friends.. but i never replaced her.. i kinda feel like she replaced me though
her parents recently got divorced and her father is very mean to her.. i understand what she is going through... but the way she treats me because of it makes me even more miserable than her....
i'm not trying to sound selfish AT ALL... i love my best friend to death, and i try to talk to her.... but she doesnt want to... you can see it in the way she treats her mom too....
she's ok with new people she meets because i guess she wants them to like her... but she knows she can treat me like dirt and i will forgive her or just brush it off
she even avoids coming over my house she lied and told me she had a doctors appointment and then her mom told me it was the day after I invited her over.
please dont tell me to abandon her

2006-07-13 10:30:52 · 42 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My boyfriend is proposing very soon.. and I don't know what to expect. All I know is that I want to spend everyday w/him for the rest of our lives, other than that and hoping he'll propose.. I have no idea what comes next.

Do we discuss a date, or does he give me one? Once I know a date is it ok to start the wedding plans?

2006-07-13 10:30:41 · 18 answers · asked by JassyJoules 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Keeping in mind that the girl has caught me staring at her, and that the girl might also be interested in me but we're both too shy to approach each other.

2006-07-13 10:29:48 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-07-13 10:29:41 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Im going to Columbia soon and am staying in the middle of the rainforest! Just wanted to ask if theres anything I should know about or experiences from anyone whos been??! Thanks!! :)

2006-07-13 10:29:34 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-07-13 10:28:49 · 6 answers · asked by lekesisha r 1 in Marriage & Divorce

A friend of mine has come to the belief that he is bisexual, but won't tell anyone because he thinks that no woman would ever want him again.

He also thinks that men who know him will treat him much differently if they know as well.

Was just wondering what you all think. I've already given my opinion.

How much harder would it be for him to find a serious relationship leading to marrige with a woman?

2006-07-13 10:28:05 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

If your woman or potential woman told you that she had ben with a lot of men before you, say she said 50 or more. Would you think different of her?? Would the sexual relations that u guys share be affected by knowing that. Would your whole relationship start to falter because of that??

2006-07-13 10:27:07 · 12 answers · asked by magesticmayhem 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-07-13 10:26:55 · 33 answers · asked by Green Tea Happy 3 in Singles & Dating

I'm not ugly, I'm mostly mature, secure and dependable. I have a good job, nice house and car, and I live in a college town. And I havn't a clue how to fetch my pretty girl.

2006-07-13 10:26:51 · 26 answers · asked by NIGHTSHADE 4 in Singles & Dating

What are you passionate about, and what brings you lasting joy and happiness and a sense of fulfillment?

2006-07-13 10:26:28 · 9 answers · asked by pharcydetrip 2 in Friends

2006-07-13 10:25:26 · 17 answers · asked by purrrrrrrfect 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I broke up with my boyfriend for no important reason, I just needed space, we got into a fight b/c he was getting into my other close friends buisness, asking them why i broke up with him. We havent really talked since then, until about a week before prom. Then at prom he shows up with my best friend, she then later confesses that she likes him. But now i want him back. Should i give up and let them be or should I get him back. Do you think it is just a clever way to get my back or what. Please help i still want them as friends but i dont know if i can handle it if they get together. please answer in detail if ya can.

2006-07-13 10:24:47 · 7 answers · asked by *Shayla* 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-07-13 10:24:35 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Can a Shemale get a female pregrant

2006-07-13 10:24:17 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I know alot of us have had these types of problems but some dont know how to let go.

2006-07-13 10:24:04 · 8 answers · asked by Loriell M 1 in Singles & Dating

I just cant stand it when people do that at work, what do you think of people who use profanity at work?

2006-07-13 10:23:30 · 12 answers · asked by pkuchick 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

My grandmother and mother always told me if I want to keep a boyfriend or even a guy who is just a friend. Then, I cannot call them or they will run and feel uncomfortable around or never speak to me again. However, I asked my younger friends about it and they think it is okay to call or email a boyfriend or a guy who is just a friend. So, I was wondering is it appropriate to email or call a guy or should the guy call or email the girl first and take the intiative?

2006-07-13 10:22:48 · 10 answers · asked by brooke992002 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-07-13 10:22:42 · 20 answers · asked by CHULA5 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-07-13 10:22:29 · 9 answers · asked by LADY J 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-07-13 10:22:13 · 7 answers · asked by Steph is tight like a tiger 2 in Singles & Dating

Im 15 now, so ive got a while to prepare, but who knows the legalities of such an issue? And please dont give me maturity advise. Both sets of parents AND every pastor in our church (all 3 youth pastors, senior pastor, and junior pastor) are in favor of our marrage.

2006-07-13 10:21:05 · 5 answers · asked by imkopaka 2 in Weddings