My friend is 15,and has been going out with this guy for almost 5 months,yet already he has told that they have slept together 3 times.He is not the type to make up stories or lie and he only told his best friend who let it slip to us.How do I know this is true and what signs can I look for?She is not the type to tell me.
2006-07-13 10:34:59 · 25 answers · asked by Jesi 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
by the smile on her face
2006-07-13 10:35:48 · answer #1 · answered by RAllen1st 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you care if your 15 year old friend has had sex? If she want to tell you that she made a bad choice by having sex with someone who does not respect her enough to keep their business between themselves, that is her problem. Not yours. You should focus more on ensuring that you do not make the same mistake. And for the record, secrets like who you slept with do not just slip out. They are told purposefully. The guy should not have told anyone. Now, your friend will be labeled as easy. What you can do, if you are really her friend, is tell her that you heard from someone other than her boyfriend that they had sex. Then you can explain to her that anyone who respects her will not tell their personal business. Whether she receives your advice or not, she needs to hear it from a true friend who has her best interest at heart.
2006-07-13 17:42:30 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I understand you care for your friend,but this is one of those "Life Lesson" moments. It's best if you just stay out of this situation. Be her friend , and not a detective. It's really none of your concern. People tell you what, they wish to tell. You will come off as needy and too nosey if you continue to pry. She'll tell you when she's ready, you don't wat to lose a friend over a guy thing. G'luck
2006-07-13 17:39:26 · answer #3 · answered by mieldor76 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you want to know??? Why don't you get your own life? If she was your friend then she will tell you. Stop being a hater.....I used to bet up girls like you.
p.s.
You guys are too young to have sex anyways.....
2006-07-13 17:37:49 · answer #4 · answered by queen b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you really want the truth it is noones business but hers and his and noone should kiss and tell. If it is secret it should remain that way He shouldn't have told anyone.
2006-07-13 17:45:44 · answer #5 · answered by mechaneckbill 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just come right out and ask her - - and if she says yes, it is your duty as her friend to go with her to the school counsellor or a teen center to have someone speak to her about that decision - -hopefully convince her to stop.
2006-07-13 18:35:33 · answer #6 · answered by Ready 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Non yo biz nus
2006-07-13 17:36:45 · answer #7 · answered by Kristie P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you look under her left foot there will be a little orangish dot
most people don't know about it
no dot no sex
dot = sex
2006-07-13 17:38:22 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
take notes this is pretty complex:
1. go up to your friend
2. look at her
3. say hi
4. ask her if she has had sex
5. wait for answer
2006-07-13 17:39:31 · answer #9 · answered by hkfkgsdvfksa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do you care??? Heck! Who cares. You are not getting nothing out of it, so why even bother to find out.
2006-07-13 17:37:47 · answer #10 · answered by Justanothergirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she is not the type to tell you things, what kind of a friend is she then?
2006-07-13 17:37:18 · answer #11 · answered by stickan8 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋