My GF is very controlling. everytime I want to address her domination of the relationship, she turns into a loving woman, and, I get neutralized. If I confront her in the middle of an argument, she becomes hysterical, to the point that I do anything to appease her, and I give up. This selttles her down, and we are back at lovy scene . The problem is not only that she is so controlling over me, but, I love her a lot, and, she cunningly uses my love against me.
I am a prisoner to my love for her, and, she is a loving tyrant, in the sense that she wants to dominate the relationship, but, not in a violent or crazy manner, but, she manipulates me with cunning love and mind games.
I am not used to this kind of manipulation, and, she usually outlasts me in any argument, I always give up to appease her.
Help, I am caught in a rip tide.
2006-06-28
14:06:23
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VikingSurfer
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