my boyfriend gets upset for every little thing right now he is mad because i did not want to have sex with him reason is that i could be pregnant and i am a little lost about the whole situation i am confuse but he does not know whats going on so what to do
2006-06-28 13:58:46 · 27 answers · asked by Simone D 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
There's most likely a deeper problem here. Sit him down and ask him what's really bothering him.
2006-06-28 13:59:53 · answer #1 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should sit down and talk with him. There may be a larger problem than he is upset about you withholding sex. I don't think your situation will improve without trying to get him to open up to you. If he is truly only upset about the sex thing, then hopefully he will understand how you feel if he loves you deeply. Is having children something you both have talked about? Maybe he is as confused as you knowing you may be pregnant. Go to him and try to reach out to him. Good luck!
2006-06-28 21:04:23 · answer #2 · answered by fabguy4fn12 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Natural reaction from the guy. Trust me. Best advice I can give in this situation is communicate with him Sit him down, look him in the eyes and tell him EVERYTHING that is going on inside of you. Apologize for your end of the arguments and hope that he does the same.
If he does NOT apologize or be understanding of your position then know that this how he will be in the future. If you can't deal with it then you should move on.
2006-06-28 21:01:33 · answer #3 · answered by contrafilms 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey gurl
u need to just sit him down and talk to him
and i mean deeply
its gonna be akward at first but just tell him how u feel
that u don't want to have sex bc/ that could ruin ur future
tell him that u aren't ready
and if he says nobody gets pregnant on there first time
don't believe it
don't believe any of his lies to get u to do it
if u don't want to then don't
mr. right won't push u into doing things u don't want to do
so plz just tell him either to get lost or make him sit down and
listen i mean really listen to what u have to say
and if he's a shallow jerk that doesn't talk to u about what he feels
then dump him bc/ hunn he's not worth it
guys aren't worth your tears but the one that is won't make u cry
use that and never forget it plz
thanx 4 listening to this
good luck!!!
2006-06-28 21:05:20 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should give him some time but if he always gets mad about stupid things then maybe he doesnt respect you. If a guy usually gets mad about not having sex then he isn't thinking about "you". I hope you get what im saying and good luck with everything :)
2006-06-28 21:01:39 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that you suspect you might be pregnent. His answer will tell you what type of person he is. Him gettting mad about not having sex with you is petty, sorta already tells you the type of person he is, Did he eve bother asking what might be wrong?? or did he make accusations??.
Honesty will help the situation.
2006-06-28 21:04:18 · answer #6 · answered by redh0t2004 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are not sure DON'T TELL HIM
tell him your stressing out over your parents, or other family member and you are trying to figure it out and that you don't like whats happening that you guys are fighting over nothing and that you need to get your head on straight... this will buy you some time and figure it out.
if its nothing don't tell him and just tank him for being understanding
if your having a baby tell him ASAP and let him know whats going on and that's the real reason your so stressed out
2006-06-28 21:06:17 · answer #7 · answered by nsxplus1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you need to tell your boyfriend that you might be pregnant and that's why you don't want to have sex. Don't let a guy pressure into having sex with him when you don't want to.
2006-06-28 21:05:18 · answer #8 · answered by loveismagic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him you might be preagannt even if you are sex wont hurt he baby if you are pregnant i suggest you use contraception unless you want kinds tell him about the baby and go from there other wise you two need to moveonm if your fighting over small things all the time
2006-06-28 21:04:01 · answer #9 · answered by treatau 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think u should discuss wit ur boyfriend..and i think u r right to say no to sex if u r scared to be pregnant..dont worry he'll understand if he loves u.
2006-06-28 21:03:49 · answer #10 · answered by aneela n 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be truthful with him
dont hide the truth
express your feelings
be honest and upfront with your man
he needs to know if you are pregnant!
tell him your problems with intimacey
get a home pregnancy kit they are cheap and easy to use
and very accurate
use a condom silly
tell him whats going on
if he is your true love he will stick with you and be by your side no matter what
2006-06-28 21:01:49 · answer #11 · answered by Erdelac 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋