Family & Relationships - 27 June 2006

WELL LOOK THIS IS MY STORY I RECENTLY HAD HOOKED UP WITH A FRIEND WE WHERE GOOD FRIENDS WELL SHE IS MY NEIGHBOR N WELL WE ALSO WORK TOGETHER. N WELL I HAD ASJ HER TO BE MY GIRLFRIEND BUT AT THE TIME I HAD ASKED HER SHE HAD BROKE UP WITH HER EX N WELL SHE SAID YES BUT THAN 2 WEEKS PASSED N SHE SAID THAT SHE WAS SEEING ME MORE AS A FRIEND. AND WELL I HAD GOTTEN UPSET ABOUT THAT N I SAID THAT IF SHE CANT BE MINE THAN I COULDNT BE HER FRIEND SO SHE STAYED HERE TRYING TO WORK THINGS OUT, BUT THIS PASSED WEEKEND WE HAD 2 SERIOUS ARGUMENTS N WELL SHE SAID THAT SHE DIDNT WANT TO HURT ME NO MORE BECAUSE SHE SAID SHE COULDNT CHANGE HER MIND ABOUT SEEING ME AS A FRIEND. SO I MADE THE CHOICE OF LETTING HER GO BUT I MISS HER N SINCE WE WORK TOGETHER ALL OF OUR FRIENDS ARE LIKE THAT WE SHOULD TRY TO COME TO A COMPROMISE BUT I DONT KNOW LIKE WE LOOK AT EACH OTHERS EYES N I CAN TELL THAT SHE STILL HAS SOMETHING FOR ME BUT THAT SHE IS SCARE OF FAILURE SO WHAT SHOULD I DO I REALLY NEED HELP............

2006-06-27 15:16:03 · 7 answers · asked by sfcc 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-06-27 15:15:27 · 7 answers · asked by big_j_gizzy 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

the perfect friend or perfect lover? which one and why?

2006-06-27 15:14:54 · 33 answers · asked by maria c 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok, I'm in a different country and when I first got here the only person cool enough to chill with and all that, was this girl. If she wasn't about to get married I would think about taggin it, but I have no intentions of doing so. Well, we're good friends and all but when we're around work people like to mess with me about us, and say I'm trying to get her. So, now when we we're at work or around people from work she acts rude or just ignores me completely. However, if I don't talk to her at all for a few days she comes knocking on my door or calls me and wants to chill, or even when we're away from people at work she's a lot cooler. Oh, I forgot to tell you her husband isn't in the country with us. So, does she act like that because their comments, or, because she thinks I am trying to sleep with her, or, because she's trying to keep a man around for when she's lonely, or because she likes me but can't act on it? I want to know so I know whether or not to tell her to "F" off.

2006-06-27 15:14:18 · 3 answers · asked by socomgoat 2 in Friends

there is this nice but strange guy at work. once he text paged me to ask me out , i text paged him back with a yes. but after few days when nothing really happened and i asked him about it he said it was just a joke !
couple of wks later he suggested shopping at my favorite store together as we were both on our way home but all of the sudden he said that he left his car-keys and would see me later!!
and this pattern of stimulation ONLY has happened on few other occassions as well...
He also stares at me a lot but he keeps reminding that he does it to make me laugh !!
Generally speaking he is a good-hearted guy but I dont know about these behaviours !!!

2006-06-27 15:13:49 · 3 answers · asked by me 1 in Singles & Dating

people r jerks and ahhh some people r nice. they r mean cause i`m a cheerleader

2006-06-27 15:11:20 · 12 answers · asked by KrisBug 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

i've been having problems with my bf for the past 2 months. we've been dating for 4 years. it all started from our little stupid argument. it was over something so little. we ignored each other for 3 weeks and finally decided to talk again. but instead of making up...my bf wanted to break up. it broke my heart when he told me this. at the time...all i wanted to do was TRY my best to SAVE the relationship. it's been a month now and nothing seems to improve. i'm an emotional wreck right now. i just wish that i could have the courage to move on and forget about our 4-year relationship. i really don't want to toss away those 4 years. they mean so much to me. i really love him and i just couldn't bring myself to remove all the emotional attachments. i feel so attached to the relationship and to him. what should i do? is it right for me to hold on? am i too clingy? i just wish that i could have the courage to NOT care about him but it's just so hard. thanks for listening.

2006-06-27 15:11:18 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

personal experience: I have a real crush on this nice lady but I can't make a move coz' the big "diamond" ring on her left ring finger bugs me a lot.... what should I do?

2006-06-27 15:10:34 · 28 answers · asked by xenophobichart 2 in Singles & Dating

would u be mad if your younger sister likes to booty dance??? my brother gets mad when me and friends do it. he says guys dont need to look at me like that.

2006-06-27 15:10:34 · 15 answers · asked by i rawkkk 3 in Singles & Dating

gone to a clairvoyant to speak with a deceased relative or friend? If so, were you able to have communication with the dead? Was it a good or bad experience? I am asking because my best friend passed away, and I heard of a woman who can supposedly speak with the dead. I am hesitant to give a try, I am not one to be easily convinced. Please let me know if you or somebody you know has ever done this type of thing, and what the outcome was. Thanks.

2006-06-27 15:09:38 · 6 answers · asked by somechick25 5 in Friends

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2006-06-27 15:09:22 · 7 answers · asked by rileyboy 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I had a revolving door relationship with my true love every 4 yrs or so (total of 20 years)but it never worked out, now we are both married to others, but you always wonder what if about the one that got away.

2006-06-27 15:08:59 · 40 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-06-27 15:06:32 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-06-27 15:06:24 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm trying to figure out what to do and not to do to be able to treat all the kids fairly.

2006-06-27 15:05:51 · 10 answers · asked by rapidschick 1 in Family

but i dont have any ideas and i dont want it to be a corny party. I already know im going to have it at a pool but any ideas for decarations or any other ideas. i need a successful party or my reputation will be ruined forever!!!!!!!

2006-06-27 15:05:30 · 5 answers · asked by makewake 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-06-27 15:05:23 · 8 answers · asked by Pat 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-06-27 15:04:43 · 5 answers · asked by aggel4life 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-06-27 15:04:18 · 3 answers · asked by Krista 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-06-27 15:03:10 · 6 answers · asked by Andrea V 1 in Friends

2006-06-27 15:02:59 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-06-27 15:01:21 · 17 answers · asked by whos_tat_grl 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-06-27 15:00:38 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

If they have made up their minds why would they still go on a date with you?

I have been injured in an accident and gained 50lbs. I don't want to meet any girls until I am in shape again because I don't want to be banished forever to "Eunich Land" without a fair shot. Do girls ever change there minds after initial banishment?

2006-06-27 15:00:27 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We have all heard the cliche "It takes a village..." I have noticed here, that there a very large number of young people asking questions. Not just obnoxious sex questions, but serious questions about puberty, adolescence, and health issues. And the answers, for the most part (with the exception of a few *******) are very sincere and helpful. In my mind this creates an interesting paradox: I am incredibly disturbed by the questions; where are the parents of these poor kids? And I am somewhat comforted by the fact that they have a place to ask some of those embarassing questions. And receive, for the most part, sincere answers. What are your thoughts about this observation?

2006-06-27 14:59:32 · 14 answers · asked by Bruce B 4 in Family

I"m taking about 1st. thur 10th.

2006-06-27 14:59:21 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My sister is my best friend. About 7 months ago she met a guy off the internet and in the 2 month she knew him she and her to kids moved in with him. Well for about 4 month she has moved back in with my mom and dad over 7 times cause she did not like it there or her and her boyfriend broke up and every time she would just drag the kids back with her. The kids have had changed there school every time she would move. Well about 3 months ago she left everything behind to be with this man . Yes she left her two kids behind and since she has done that they have been living with me and my boyfriend. I am so mad at her. It hurts so much to see what she has done. I have lost my best friend and my sister ,but mostly my nephews think that there mother does not want them. My mother think it;s all her falt she thinks this is the way she rasied my sister and i am scared the my mom will get so sick that she might die I will hate my sister if that happends. What should I do forgive or forget her HELP

2006-06-27 14:59:16 · 10 answers · asked by Amy L 2 in Family

2006-06-27 14:58:57 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

there is a lot of stress in cheerleading and i can`t drop out i love cheerleading! and have been cheering 4 my hole life what should i do?

2006-06-27 14:57:58 · 22 answers · asked by KrisBug 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-06-27 14:56:32 · 15 answers · asked by lilbitevil2 2 in Family