If they have made up their minds why would they still go on a date with you?
I have been injured in an accident and gained 50lbs. I don't want to meet any girls until I am in shape again because I don't want to be banished forever to "Eunich Land" without a fair shot. Do girls ever change there minds after initial banishment?
2006-06-27 15:00:27 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Come on that is so unfair! You forget you are talking about girls here, not guys... you guys are the ones that take our clothes off with your eyes! LOL Seriously, if you have a personality then the dating scene is worth living. Besides, do you want someone to like you just for your hot bod (well, that is a nice feature, but its not everything)?? I think its a bit vain and sad that you think that way. Besides, girls don't determine if we will sleep with you within the first few minutes anyway and what kind of girl would she be if she did sleep with you right away??? Gross... I can tell you she either doesn't think too much of herself or much about you. Good Luck with your fitness goals!!! : )
2006-06-27 15:07:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um, well I know I don't decide whether I'll be with a guy within a few minutes. That's a little trashy, doncha think? I might decide whether he gets my libido going or not. But that's more of an involuntary physical reaction than a decision.
Also, I am with a guy right now who initially I wasn't too attracted to. I didn't find him hideous or anything, but it wasn't like *swoon!* or whatever. He was just "okay." His teeth are a lil crooked and it bothered me at first, even though I didn't want it to.
But after bein around him and seein how much I love just about everything else about him... I made myself look past the teeth thing. And honestly, I even find it endearing now. I love my baby's crooked lil smile. LOL. How crazy is that? ;)
So yeah, looks do matter to an extent. But I think personality matters more, in the long run...
2006-06-28 15:35:16 · answer #2 · answered by Holly 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I often know if I will/would sleep with a guy when I meet him, and thats usually because there is an instant attraction or spark there. Otherwise, I don't normally say to myself that I wouldn't sleep with someone after just meeting them (if there's no spark, I don't think of sex at all when I meet them). I have changed my mind about guys before (and slept with no instant spark guys), so yes, you can come back from banishment.
2006-06-27 15:08:32 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When a girl first meet men they make a prejudgement call on weather to sleep w/ a guy. Sometimes when they get to know a guy they might end of sleeping w/ a guy b/c of other qualities.
2006-06-27 15:06:18 · answer #4 · answered by inneedofhelp 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think it depends on the girl. some girls change there minds after getting to know the guy better and some girls won't ever change there minds.
2006-06-27 15:05:26 · answer #5 · answered by gaddygurldec 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont really think about that when i first meet a guy. i think more about if he has a good presonality and if he'd be right for me and if he isnt i move on to the next one
2006-06-27 15:06:28 · answer #6 · answered by maria c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pretty much. When I met my husband, we made eye contact immediately an I knew right away that I wanted him.
2015-06-15 16:19:19 · answer #7 · answered by Rebecca 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes, however i will change my mind if he goes from not to sexy to dang hes sexy
2006-06-27 15:05:11 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pretty much.
2015-10-19 09:07:37 · answer #9 · answered by Rebecca 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋