Ok, I'm in a different country and when I first got here the only person cool enough to chill with and all that, was this girl. If she wasn't about to get married I would think about taggin it, but I have no intentions of doing so. Well, we're good friends and all but when we're around work people like to mess with me about us, and say I'm trying to get her. So, now when we we're at work or around people from work she acts rude or just ignores me completely. However, if I don't talk to her at all for a few days she comes knocking on my door or calls me and wants to chill, or even when we're away from people at work she's a lot cooler. Oh, I forgot to tell you her husband isn't in the country with us. So, does she act like that because their comments, or, because she thinks I am trying to sleep with her, or, because she's trying to keep a man around for when she's lonely, or because she likes me but can't act on it? I want to know so I know whether or not to tell her to "F" off.
2006-06-27 15:14:18 · 3 answers · asked by socomgoat 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Well she probably hang with you out side of work cause she dont want people saying crap about her. Sounds like she could possibly like you or she just might be lonely. Why do you want to tell her to F off i mean you said you liked her and that you were good friends. I would just stay friends you both enjoy each others company so.. Well just decide what you wanna do. Good Luck.
2006-06-27 15:22:12 · answer #1 · answered by Megan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think she really likes you and dosn't know how to tell you . Exspecally with her being married. It dosn't help with other co workers being around knowing she is married and all that. I think she is diffrent around them because of all that. It is too bad you couldn't ask her when your alone how she feels about the two of yous or possibily becoming good friends and see where it takes yous. I feel you get a better ideal on what is going on. She may be a little on the shy side at first but you will get a resonce. I have been going through the same situaction. I just don't know how to let the other know I am into him because I am married.
2006-06-27 22:34:41 · answer #2 · answered by ladyjamie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i say if you can't talk to me at work then you can't talk to me out of work either.... i don't do "part time friends"
2006-06-27 22:30:59 · answer #3 · answered by donna l 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋