should i try to get my exgirlfriend back?

Question

WELL LOOK THIS IS MY STORY I RECENTLY HAD HOOKED UP WITH A FRIEND WE WHERE GOOD FRIENDS WELL SHE IS MY NEIGHBOR N WELL WE ALSO WORK TOGETHER. N WELL I HAD ASJ HER TO BE MY GIRLFRIEND BUT AT THE TIME I HAD ASKED HER SHE HAD BROKE UP WITH HER EX N WELL SHE SAID YES BUT THAN 2 WEEKS PASSED N SHE SAID THAT SHE WAS SEEING ME MORE AS A FRIEND. AND WELL I HAD GOTTEN UPSET ABOUT THAT N I SAID THAT IF SHE CANT BE MINE THAN I COULDNT BE HER FRIEND SO SHE STAYED HERE TRYING TO WORK THINGS OUT, BUT THIS PASSED WEEKEND WE HAD 2 SERIOUS ARGUMENTS N WELL SHE SAID THAT SHE DIDNT WANT TO HURT ME NO MORE BECAUSE SHE SAID SHE COULDNT CHANGE HER MIND ABOUT SEEING ME AS A FRIEND. SO I MADE THE CHOICE OF LETTING HER GO BUT I MISS HER N SINCE WE WORK TOGETHER ALL OF OUR FRIENDS ARE LIKE THAT WE SHOULD TRY TO COME TO A COMPROMISE BUT I DONT KNOW LIKE WE LOOK AT EACH OTHERS EYES N I CAN TELL THAT SHE STILL HAS SOMETHING FOR ME BUT THAT SHE IS SCARE OF FAILURE SO WHAT SHOULD I DO I REALLY NEED HELP............

Answer 1

Back off for a while and go easy. Even if she still has feelings for you, she obviously needs space for whatever reason. Write her a letter in a few days, telling her how you feel. Tell her you cherish her friendship and don't want to lose it but hope it could be more again with time.

Best,

G

Answer 2

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Answer 3

uhhh sounds to me like she still needs some time from breaking up with her x...most of the time if ya jump right into it with someone right out of a relationship it does not work. Give it time before you go for it.

Answer 4

If she can not get passed just seeing you as a friend, I would say move on...Sometimes friends are just ment to be friends. All I can say is just talk to her about it, and if she is willing to try then go for it.

Answer 5

if u still love her than why not go 4 it

Answer 6

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Answer 7

Just go for it, give it one last try. You might regret it if you don't try just one last time.