Family & Relationships - 26 June 2006

We see our therapist seperately every-other-week alternating with each other plus our therapists. His therapist generally runs the show... We are simply there for general marital problems (no cheating, etc.). My main concern is that I am noticing my husband tells his therapist things that aren't true. He says I say things I didn't and that I react a certain way that I didn't. When we're all together he will argue with me, and I refuse to argue in front of people and don't want to make a scene. I feel like I need to be defending myself, especially when he says something that's not true and then cries about it! His therapist acts like I'm being cold or something, and argues with me. What should I do??

2006-06-26 05:01:47 · 15 answers · asked by J.Ahad 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-06-26 05:01:42 · 5 answers · asked by Smart_Guy 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-06-26 05:01:37 · 9 answers · asked by jenniferwilliamson2002 2 in Friends

would you respond and encourage him ,or push him away and turn over ?

2006-06-26 05:00:54 · 58 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

here goes me and my husband got divorced in jan i have started seeing his brother is there anything wrong with this he has already remarried so i don't really see what his major malfunction is he keeps harrassing me after he is the one who cheated and lied and was engaged while we were married his brother treats me very well and has told me he loves me i see nothing wrong with me seeing his brother

2006-06-26 05:00:39 · 22 answers · asked by Denise38 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-06-26 05:00:23 · 4 answers · asked by danvil11 2 in Friends

My 2 daughters are unhappy with themselves and blame all their problems on me raising them by myself. Their dad left us for another woman. They are 44 and 45 yrs old. I made mistakes, I was a young mother. They never stop blaming me for everything that goes wrong in their lives!

2006-06-26 05:00:10 · 9 answers · asked by Ronda B 1 in Family

What does your wife have to do for you to make you happy? Do you ask her to? Does she just know? Or do you talk about what your needs and desires are?

2006-06-26 04:59:52 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

crazy about me...now i got a good job but w/ nobody?

2006-06-26 04:58:21 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

do you thinks there is such a thing?

2006-06-26 04:56:56 · 52 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-06-26 04:56:36 · 10 answers · asked by blink706 2 in Friends

2006-06-26 04:56:35 · 12 answers · asked by Bumblee Bee 2 in Singles & Dating

I have a friend that comes over quite often and just won't leave until THEY are ready. When I say I have errands to run they ask to join, when I say I'm tired they just say I should get some sleep.

2006-06-26 04:56:32 · 8 answers · asked by 9728 1 in Friends

2006-06-26 04:56:15 · 5 answers · asked by chugamama6906 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-06-26 04:56:02 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

attached and still have my girl, now i havent acted on this and i'm not sure i will but...i cant stop thinking about it, so what would you do??hmmm

2006-06-26 04:55:24 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my best frnd due to a small fight has not been talking to me for 6 months... i miss her lot and i want her back.. what shall i do???

2006-06-26 04:55:00 · 6 answers · asked by lavender 1 in Friends

Like- for example- "The Smith Family Reunion"

There are many last names involved... how far up the ladder do you go? Would you name it after family members that are deceased?
Thank you for your help!
Mary

2006-06-26 04:54:55 · 2 answers · asked by curley_suzie 1 in Family

2006-06-26 04:54:39 · 14 answers · asked by ~Jess~ 2 in Friends

2006-06-26 04:54:36 · 8 answers · asked by Barbi_girl 2 in Family

Is love enough contiued...

Reason i asked is, me and my boyfriend love each other, live together, fancy each other, sex is great and still every day. been 2gether 2 years, living together one, make each other laugh, have great friendship... but its not working?
Im in love with him and he's in love with me.... why? we want the same things, have the same goals and ambition....

why isnt it working?

2006-06-26 04:54:26 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My husband is a mommies boy and it drives me crazy. Im from oregon and hes from Cali but his parents are moving to Tenessee, His mom drives me nutz! She has total control over him pretty much to a point where its frusterating. She told him that shell give us a house on their property in TN, once the babys born so we can live near her. like a five minute walk. she said shell be over everyday. I can stand her that much. Ho do I stress to him that its not what I want. I like her, but I dont think I could put up with her everyday! Shes a drama Queen!

2006-06-26 04:54:22 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

and have never worked that shift in my life. I am a very "go to bed at night and wake up in the morning scheduled person, when I'm tired it makes my anxiety alot worse. Anyone have a suggestion on how to prep myself for it

2006-06-26 04:54:17 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been talking to a guy on yahoo for about a month and a half, i have met him in person and seemed to get along well with him...the problem is whenever we make plans to hook up again he always cancels at the last moment...i asked him the one day if it was because he really didn't want to talk to me and he said not at all...but i am confused because after that we made plans again and he cancelled again..i sent him an offline message about 3 days ago and have not heard a response, i dont know if he's been on to see what i have wrote but i was just wondering if anyone can give me some input..thank u

2006-06-26 04:54:07 · 3 answers · asked by Angel T 2 in Singles & Dating

What action should you take as a parent if you see your children who are 16 sleep together (having Sex), they are twins,

2006-06-26 04:53:41 · 50 answers · asked by Kmeroon 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have been seeing a married man for quite awhile. He is educated, professional, attractive, married many years with grown children. He appears to be a good husband and has a very good relationshlip with his children and their families. He is always doing family things and holidays and stuff. He does stuff for his wife around the house and is a welll balanced sane person. His wife doesn't like to have sex much and he has a high sex drive and he is the best lover I have found. I don't consider myself a homewrecker and I have never done this kind of thing before. I have dated single men and haven't found them to have the same good qualities as he does. Some of them have been real jerks. I myelf would rather be married to a man like him than have a faithful jerk who probably only stays faithful because he has nothing to offer a woman (I'm not talking about money, I'm talking about passion and romance and trying new things).

2006-06-26 04:53:28 · 18 answers · asked by reallyfedup 5 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-06-26 04:53:21 · 6 answers · asked by lydia 1 in Weddings

He has the kids four days a month. He is constantly asking for more time with the kids, but on the days he has them he's leaving them with his wife most of the time. Like this weekend, he's out doing his own thing while his wife is entertaining my kids, and he's not even there, all day! Yet he wants more time, time he takes away from me. I value my time with the kids.

2006-06-26 04:53:11 · 13 answers · asked by ? 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Hi all. This is a genuine post. Ive never been what you may say - ugly. Im pretty average as women go. Been in relationships so attention from admirers was limited anyway.. but for the past month I have been getting crazy attention from both men & women. (Im bi-sexual) If I go out for the night, I return home with phone numbers written everywhere.... I get constantly approached when Im out... get those "looks". Im enjoying it but puzzled. I dont really know how to handle it or why on earth all this has just started in the last month. Anyone have any ideas???

2006-06-26 04:51:49 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

am i the only one like that?
why am i not a friendly person?
should i change myself?
how? and why?

2006-06-26 04:51:23 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends