here goes me and my husband got divorced in jan i have started seeing his brother is there anything wrong with this he has already remarried so i don't really see what his major malfunction is he keeps harrassing me after he is the one who cheated and lied and was engaged while we were married his brother treats me very well and has told me he loves me i see nothing wrong with me seeing his brother
2006-06-26 05:00:39 · 22 answers · asked by Denise38 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
we never had any kids
2006-06-26 07:14:43 · update #1
well, i'm only 13 yrs. old, and i'm kinda not married, but i don't see anything wrong with that either. unless you had kids with your ex, you should be fine.
2006-06-26 06:50:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
First I would say you shouldn't use his cheating on you as an excuse for what you do. Next make sure you are seeing the brother for the right reasons. And finally causing more family problems can be tough, make sure forgiveness is in the picture before becoming serious.
2006-06-26 12:18:25 · answer #2 · answered by falcon1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may be dating his brother as a way to get him back. Dig deep inside yourself and ask yourself why you really started dating his brother? There are plenty of fish in the sea. Try another ocean. Enjoy your single life before you get tied down again. Have fun, girl.
2006-06-26 12:03:24 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. It's not even a little bit ok unless you want to make your ex jealous so he beats his brother up to get you back. This is not religious advice, but forgive your ex and then forget him and his brother. If that doesn't work, move to a bigger town.
2006-06-26 12:08:39 · answer #4 · answered by anyone 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is obviously not a moral dilema for you, because you have answered your own question despite the fact that it is an unacceptable social norm. Do what you can live with morally.
2006-06-26 12:06:10 · answer #5 · answered by moved 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hell no its not ok. would it be ok for him to date any of your family members (male or female) if you cheated and lied. Girl its too many men in this world to keep it in the family.
2006-06-26 12:03:30 · answer #6 · answered by Free_Spirit 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess it's ok..I would feel weird about it..but if you didn't do anything wrong to his family then it should be fine.since your ex is the one that did all the damage..Good Luck
2006-06-26 12:03:00 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
go for it...but who really wants to see their ex's family all the time, and their ex. So much for Holidays with the family!!
2006-06-26 12:02:59 · answer #8 · answered by cutipi_1977 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You ex should be upset with his brother for being with you. Otherwise, you are fine. Go for it and good luck!
2006-06-26 12:03:54 · answer #9 · answered by hardcoco 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is some Jerry Springer Sh$t!!!
2006-06-26 12:02:54 · answer #10 · answered by Pimp_Slapper 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋