Why have I suddenly become attractive???

Question

Hi all. This is a genuine post. Ive never been what you may say - ugly. Im pretty average as women go. Been in relationships so attention from admirers was limited anyway.. but for the past month I have been getting crazy attention from both men & women. (Im bi-sexual) If I go out for the night, I return home with phone numbers written everywhere.... I get constantly approached when Im out... get those "looks". Im enjoying it but puzzled. I dont really know how to handle it or why on earth all this has just started in the last month. Anyone have any ideas???

Answer 1

I think its the being happy in yourself with yourself thing that makes you exude a certain confidence and aura - and people pick up on that. Make the most of it whilst it lasts don't abuse it or use it to manipulate, mislead or otherwise hurt others as that is the surest way to undermine yourself and make it go away. B yourself B happy.

Answer 2

Oh go girlfriend!!! I know exactly what you mean, thank you so much for sharing this as I thought I was all alone with this and didn't want to say anything to my friends as they may have thought I was being big headed.

For me I think it's just the fact that I'm now comfortable with myself. I've come out of a long term relationship and spent a while getting over it. I think guys are attracted to my new found confidence; I'm not standing in a bar/club with that needy look! All though I'm still a bit shy when approached and get all flustered, like are you really talking to me? What you want my number??

I've learned that we only live once, this is not a dress rehearsal so lets live it to the full and that's what's bringing them in!!

Enjoy yourself and be careful.

Answer 3

Have you stopped caring about the net result of a going-out evening? I realised that whenever I didn't bother to meet anybody at all but just "let it flow", I got lucky and whenever I was out "on the hunt" nothing happened. Appearing confident and relaxed is the biggest aphrodisiac.

Answer 4

Have you had a new hair cut or dyed your hair to another color? Another style? Have you changed the way you dress? Even high heels will change your looks. Have you changed your ATTITUDE? Do you think you are more attractive? All these factors help to make you more attractive. Congratulations. Whatever you did, 'keep on truckin' as long as it's good for you.

Answer 5

It is a weird thing isn't it? When I was in highschool it seems that I got the most guys hitting on me when I had a cold and well that's not attractive. Did you spray yourself with some magic attraction potion or something.

Answer 6

Maybe your attitude has changed. Maybe you are more confident. If so, then people are naturally attracted to confident people. Don't question it, just enjoy it. But don't get a real big head. That's not attractive at all.

Answer 7

Maybe you are showing more confidence about yourself when you are out. Many people are attracted to confidence and people seem to exude confidence when they feel good about themselves. Others will pick up on this.

Answer 8

now ur aware of how beautiful ur just enjoy the attention only make eye contact if u want to take it further ur in charge go for it girl!!!!!

Answer 9

your confidence is drawing attention..sounds like your happy..and you go out and do things..have fun..probably have a fun outgoing personality and people are attracted to personality and confidence and who knows..maybe you are the only who thought you weren't attractive.

Answer 10

You probably are exuding self confidence, and probably a jazzy dresser, well groomed and maintained, it's your world now, enjoy it. Don't get too cocky now, OK :) go get em....Good luck!