Two weeks ago, after an argument, my husband told me to "get out of [his] house." I called my sister and she got out of bed at 6am to drive the two hours to pick me up and bring me home.
Things have been bad for two years. I've had to beg for attention to get any, and mostly fail. He tells me over and over it's because I don't keep house well enough, and I try, but it makes him affectionate for a few hours, until he gets absorbed back into whatever game he's playing. Don't even ask about sex. I forget what that's like.
In any case...I've been told by friends that it's emotional abuse, and I don't know what to do. I don't want to go back, but he called my parents today and pretended to be the reasonable one. What do I tell them, since I need their support and help? They've mentioned that I've "invested ten years of my life" into this, but...I hurt, and I don't want to waste any more.
Any suggestions? Please?
2006-06-16
19:53:05
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Tina34
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Marriage & Divorce