2006-06-16 19:50:33 · 5 answers · asked by helix 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
How do you knwo you are in real love?
2006-06-16 19:50:47 · update #1
Love is a decision.
When you meet someone for the first time, even without speaking to that person, you are either physically attracted to them, or not. If you are physically attracted, you will attempt to converse with them and begin a pursuit that is based on sexual desire (or lust) initially.
If you have common likes, dislikes, backgrounds, thoughts or ideas, your physical attraction becomes embellished with the added spice of "like" or friendship. (Emotion)
So our formula now is sex+like. It is at this point that we "decide" to love this person and then then the formula is sex+like=decision
If we are fortunate enough to marry this person, we are declaring our love by deciding to stay together, and in order to stay "in love" we have to decide to stay "in love".
Love is a decision.
It is inspite of all else. It supercedes disappointment. It began with lust, but ultimately depends on whether or not we decide to stay "in love" for the long haul.
2006-06-16 20:12:32 · answer #1 · answered by themainsail 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes,because if you saved yourself for your spouse and saved your love for that special someone you saved everthing for that specific person and only that person and when that ever happens with that certain person that going to be the one your going to be attatched to because you've never felt that feeling or shared anything like that with anyone else because if you were to you'd probebly never find the right person to give your heart and everthing else to because when you save yourself for someone you save everthing including your love,passion,virginity,and care so when you save yourself for that special someone and you think about the question you asked i would say yes because you love that person so much your willing to give them yourself and only them.
2006-06-17 03:00:11 · answer #2 · answered by rebel_chick625 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you love somebody other than your spouse,
BOY are you gonna be in trouble!!!!!
2006-06-17 04:59:54 · answer #3 · answered by ladrhiana 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its a part of it....but only a part... there has to be more than sex.
2006-06-17 02:54:11 · answer #4 · answered by blah blah blah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes , and you will never know !
2006-06-17 03:33:03 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋