my sisters boyfreind just pops up over here like 3:00 am in the morning...she has a toddler and he just comes over anytime he feels like it and wants her to hop in the car go for a ride. I tell her that is disrespectful that he comes in wee hours in the night. I mean she has a child to look after. He does weed a lot and I just can't see her out in the wee hours of the night with him driving in that condition. I tell her its like being in the wrong place at the wrong time. She gets very upset that I dissaprove this. How can I make this guy stop doing this. He is the father of her child but still I think its disrespectful of him.
2006-06-16 19:55:43 · 6 answers · asked by Marissa H 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
She is 20 and he is 18....!
2006-06-16 20:01:19 · update #1
my sister and I do live in the same house. It just bothers me that he pops over like this....!
2006-06-16 20:07:02 · update #2
You are right, neither one of them should be doing that. Who is watching the baby while they are out in the middle of the night? I hope they aren't taking the poor thing with them while they are smoking and driving around. Unfortunately I don't think there really is much of anything that you can do to make him stop doing this. Who owns this house? Are you the older or younger sister? You sound more mature, but that doesn't always mean older. Without more information I don't really know what else to tell you.
2006-06-16 20:02:57 · answer #1 · answered by MELISSA B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he gives even a little bit of a **** about his child and the mother of that child he would not do that. I f he had any respect for either one of them he would not do that. I can tell you from experience with sisters that if you try to meddle it will only drive her away. You have to let her figure it out for herself and be there for her along the way.
2006-06-17 03:02:21 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go see counseling
2006-06-17 02:58:54 · answer #3 · answered by paper dragon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find your sister another boyfrind and get her to drop this one
2006-06-17 03:04:58 · answer #4 · answered by w17js 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nothing you can do, she has to live and learn the hard way
2006-06-17 02:58:57 · answer #5 · answered by Cory Z 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what is ur point.
2006-06-17 03:02:01 · answer #6 · answered by RAVI 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋