i need help!?

Question

Ok, here is the deal!, why cant i find someone that would love me back?, do i give to much? Or is it for me to be a loner?
i tried to be with the person i love, but it didnt work.
Is it bad to be a sweet caring guy, who listens and is there when you need him? it seems it is, but why cant any girl notice that, (A lot not all of them though)

Answer 1

Buy a copy for 'Women are from Vinus Men are from Mars" it should help, LOL


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HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND
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Here are some ideas for how to GET a great girlfriend:
1) Realize that attractive, intelligent, amazing women are IN DEMAND. They are RARE (I believe that a man who has his life together and understands women and attraction is FAR RARER, but that's a different conversation).
2) Because these women are rare and in demand, they usually have a lot of EXPERIENCE with men. And guess what? MEN ARE VERY PREDICTABLE. Men usually ask women out in one of a few PREDICTABLE ways... and they usually act one of a few PREDICTABLE ways on dates... and they usually respond in one of a few PREDICTABLE ways after the date... etc.
3) When it comes to the unusually attractive, desirable women, they have usually had a LOT of men who have "fallen" for them "too quickly". In other words, when they meet a guy who falls for them quickly, they RECOGNIZE it instantly, and RESPOND to it by RUNNING away.
4) If you want to get one of these desirable women to consider a RELATIONSHIP with you, you need to NOT act like one of the other 100 boring guys she's gone out with.
5) It is VITALLY important that you learn everything you can about women and dating before you go looking for a long-term relationship with a fantastic woman. Of course, I recommend my eBook and other advanced materials for this. You won't find a better education anywhere on this topic, and what you'll learn from me will definitely help you get your "game" together in this area. If you can't afford to get my materials right now, just keep reading these newsletters religiously. They're jam packed with great information, and they'll help you tremendously. The point is that you have to KEEP WORKING on it. Don't just learn a few things and think "OK, I've got it".
6) You must give an unusually attractive woman SPACE. You can't call her every day, tell her that you're in love with her two days after you've met her, chase her around, always ask what she's doing, etc. You must give this special woman THE GIFT OF MISSING YOU.
7) When you're in her presence, you must not treat her like you desperately want and need her approval. There's a way to do ANYTHING and have it mean ANYTHING. Whatever you do, don't try to "impress" her, act apologetic for anything about yourself, or otherwise give away your personal POWER. EVER.
8) If you have a life, stay with it. If you don't have a life, get one. Don't sit around wondering what she's doing, calling her, telling her how you "feel", etc. If she wanted another "girlfriend", she'd get one. So don't act like one. Desirable women want men who are INDEPENDENT, and who give them SPACE. In fact, if anything, you need to give a woman like this TOO MUCH space. You want HER to be the one who is calling YOU to figure out what you're up to.
9) If you sense that this woman is "testing" you by being difficult, trying to change plans with you on short notice all the time, etc. then RELAX. Lean back. Never let her "get away" with anything just because she's beautiful, or let her have any "special privileges" because you like her. NEVER.
10) If you want a long-term relationship, let it DEVELOP over time. I personally don't think it's a good idea to even CONSIDER having a relationship with a woman until you have known her for a MINIMUM of 90 days. MINIMUM! If you take this mindset, it will FORCE you to chill out and let things develop over time, instead of trying to "force" them. You'll be VERY different from the other guys she's dated, and you'll find that SHE starts letting the "I have special feelings for you" talk slip out.

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HOW TO KEEP HER?
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personally think one of the biggest mistakes men make with women comes down to GIVING AWAY PERSONAL POWER. This usually means acting apologetic, allowing a woman to "get away" with things that subtly put her "in control" of you, and behaving like a WUSSY.

Women don't feel that magical emotion called ATTRACTION for men who give away their power. Women aren't attracted to WUSSIES.

And another of the biggest mistakes that men make with women is acting BORING AND PREDICTABLE. These are two sides to the same coin. Most guys do this right from the beginning, and kill any chances of having ANY kind of success with a woman. But the REAL challenge comes when you get into a longer relationship with a person... because they get a chance to LEARN what to expect. In other words, it's harder to not act boring and predictable with someone who has known you for a long time.

But you MUST do it if you want to keep the magic alive!



GOOD LUCK GOOD LUCK and have your chin up!!! there is someone special out there for you

Answer 2

You probably haven't meet the right girl. Play it at her level. If she doesn't like sweet guy, then don't be sweet. If you want to be sweet, then keep on looking. There should be lots of girls who's looking for sweet guy. I'm not really sure of what the girls think. You can't really figure them out. Sometime she wanted this the next thing we would wanted that. Go figure.

Answer 3

Maybe Your trying To hard Love will come around when your not looking for it good luck with love

Answer 4

Here's the truth. Girls pick the man they want to love and they let you know it. And whether or not you except the girl or not is up to you.

Answer 5

God has someone out there that is perfect for you. don't let other girls who are too shallow to notice your great qualities (which it seems you have a lot) define you. you'll find your dream girl. just wait.

Answer 6

Hi Juan,

In my opinion women do not "need" a man until they need a man.

And it doesn't hurt to be tall, rich and handsome!

Answer 7

Bro
havnt u heard - Nice guyz finish last !

Answer 8

well it soundslike a bunch of crap to me....if you were all that then girls would love you....mayeb your clingy....or you pick girls that want a domineering man, like afather figure....so maybe you should find one that is more into sesitive caring men, instead of father figures.

Answer 9

well it sounds to me like your what every woman wants they just dont know it...be yourself and dont ever change to "find love" cuz quite frankly if they dont like who u are they dont love you anyways so just keep being yourself and your woman will come along eventually :)
good luck

Answer 10

girls like guys that treat them like shiet or half the time they don't know what they want at all until they are older and more mature...