My girlfriend has had sex with other guys before me. I have never asked how many, but shes mentioned it being over 5 before. I have never had sex. When we first started going out, she talked about how she wanted to have sex with me, and I was kinda excited about it, and now she says she has decided she wants to wait until marriage to ever have sex again. She says its not because of me, and that she still wants sex with me, but I kinda feel insecure now, that all the sudden with me, she has just changed her mind. I am willing to wait until marriage and I hope to marry her someday, but she says she wants to date at least another year before we think about it. Thats not a problem except for she has already had sex, and so waiting is no problem for her. I have never had it so im anxious about it, and now i have to wait an entire year more, possible even longer. It just makes me have low self esteem. I feel like theres something she wont tell me. Shes very secretive about her feelings...
2006-06-16
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