I had been dating a guy for 4 weeks. He cancelled our plans for the third time Friday. I told him I was not happy about that, and then he blew me off the rest of the weekend. He called me last night and apologized for not calling sooner. He said he got scared, and he didn't know what exactly he was scared of. He said he didn't know if it was fear of commitment, of taking things to the next level, or of letting himself have feelings for someone. He asked that we just be friends until he can figure things out. I asked him if he would want to try to be with me agian once he gets through this and he said yes, he would, but he doesn't want me to wait for him. He seemed really sincere in his answers, and so, I don't know what to think. I'm wondering if this was his way of breaking up with me without causing too many hard feelings, or if he really is just scared. What's your take on this?
2006-06-14
09:21:35
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Sally Mae
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