I Have a college prom coming up at the end of the month and there's a girl who I know and like a lot. I want to ask her to the prom, however, two of my friends also like her, but in the past have been rejected by her. How do I get round this, and how would I know if she's interested in me??? HELP ME PLZ!!
2006-06-14 09:23:50 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you have a prom... in College...
what?
2006-06-14 09:25:08 · answer #1 · answered by anonymous 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
1. there is such thing as a college prom?
2. tell the dude that has been rejected that you like her, try not to step on any toes
3. reach down grab a pair, man up and tell her how you feel.
whats better? knowing or not knowing.. if you like this chick enough youll be a man and ask her.
2006-06-14 16:28:07 · answer #2 · answered by summer6975 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask her!! The worst that could happen is that she says no! & you know the saying if you dont ask you dont get! & if she says no its her loss - not yours sure lots of other girls would go to the prom with you!! You just probably havent noticed them
Good Luck x
2006-06-14 16:47:26 · answer #3 · answered by Mel.B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you going to go to the prom anyway? If so, tell you are going and you think it would be fun and a lot of laughs if she went as well. No need to tell her how much you like her and "beg" for her to go with you.
By asking her to join you it may take some pressure off of both of you.
If she says no then ask her if any of her cute friends would like to go have some fun in stead of her. :-D
2006-06-14 17:52:36 · answer #4 · answered by yknot92688 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Boy, just walk up to her, and go hey, i was wondering if you got a date to the prom if she says no then just ask her if she would like to go with you and tell her that you liek her a lot and that you'll show her a reall good time that night
2006-06-14 16:26:20 · answer #5 · answered by Mel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There might be a very good reason she turned them down. She might have done it so you would ask.
Women LOVE confidence, they detest Men who are arrogant jerks. So in your most confident manner possible, ask her straight out. What is the worst case scenario here? She could say no? BIG freaking deal, she is the loser if she does. You are the man to be with, everyone else will be less fun to hang with.
2006-06-14 16:30:07 · answer #6 · answered by wayneraltman 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just bcause they were rejected does not mean you will be. We are all individuals. Ask. And as far as knowing if she is interested in you-your gut and your heart know the answer to that! Step up to the plate. Ask anyway!
2006-06-14 16:25:50 · answer #7 · answered by educated guess 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
say hi i dont know you very well but i would love 2 ask you to the prom staight forward ask or youlll never know and maybe she was hoping u would ask her not your friends maybe she;s waiting for you if she says no ask someone else there is alot of hotties your age have some confidence
2006-06-14 16:31:36 · answer #8 · answered by updoqueen17 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
see if you can call her - its less embarrassing than face to face for you the way it sounds is that you are quite shy
or put a wee note under her door explaining how you feel
anyway girls like that shy guy thing and may be a little shy her self
that could be why she knocked back your two friends as she is not confident in her self
good luck anyway
2006-06-14 16:33:01 · answer #9 · answered by debbie b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take the leap of faith. Just ask. i cant hurt. The worst she can say is no. She prob wont give you a horrible rejection either since you already konw her. GO FOR IT!!! Take a chance
2006-06-14 18:01:33 · answer #10 · answered by leygal 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could first ask her if she would be interested in something like lunch to gage he rinterest and then you caould look for body language, does she lean toward you when you speak, do her pupils dialate (or anything else) when you two are alone?
Good luck...
2006-06-14 16:36:28 · answer #11 · answered by Jon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋