i really love this guy named stevie and i want to marry him. we ahve been together since 1998 and we had a miscariage that would of been our first child in 2004. Ever since than we have been evenm closer. The other night when my freind said she was gettign married i felt like we were going to be the last people to get married. There was one time when we went to a party and we got a little drunk and he asked me and ever since then we havent talked about mariage. i dont know what to do. i dont know if we have grown apart or what. were 6 years apart in age. i dont know if he wants someone his own age now. i've been really sad because i want to marry him and have his kids. What do you think i should Do??? I DO or NOT
2006-06-14 09:20:21 · 14 answers · asked by stevielover3292 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I would say go for it and ask him, but you would want to make sure that he wants to marry you and you don't want to get rejected. Just talk to him about the future and what does he think about marriage.
2006-06-14 09:25:25 · answer #1 · answered by SweetPea 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Based on your post you dont talk very much with him about your feelings about the relationship. If he doesnt know what you're feeling, or what you want to happen he cant tell you his or what he wants. I'd recommend sitting down one night and asking him what does he see as the future of your relationship, then you might have some idea of if he even wants to get married, or if "he wants someone his own age". If you arent communicating in your relationship, then no answer you look for here will work.
2006-06-14 09:26:36 · answer #2 · answered by SOG Wrath 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should bring the subject of marriage up with him to see where his head is at. Are the two of you living together. Because that could explain why he hasn't ask you again. The age difference shouldn't be a problem it you been together since '98. That's the least of your worries. If you really want to be his wife, why not propose to him.
2006-06-14 09:48:51 · answer #3 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look in this day and age it deosnt matter who asks "will you marry me" but since your boyfriend hasnt asked marrage isnt on his mind yet or he thinks it isnt on yours well i think you should like most women hint that you want to get married all the time when he is around you little hints like looking in a wedding cataloge and saying how nice you would look in that dress if he deosnt get the hints you are placeing ask him i wanna get married and have your little talk about it becuase weddings are expencive and so are the rings so plan it out with him and you should be married sometime next year
2006-06-14 09:27:38 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I`m sorry about your miscarriage,but anyway i think you both need to sit down and have a good talk about both the past and most importantly your future.I dont think 6 years is that big an age gap but again i think you need to ask him.good luck!!
2006-06-14 09:26:13 · answer #5 · answered by onlyme 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A woman must look forward to the man to invite her to marry him. If you are saying it is going to take you endlessly to invite a lady to marry you, it is considering the fact that you have not met the proper woman. Once you do, you will not desire to reside with out her.
2016-09-09 01:41:56 · answer #6 · answered by Erika 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he probably wasnt dat drunk at dah party n if u didnt answer, he figured it aint gonna happen. so he probably doesnt wanna ask fo' fear, or he could juss b real shy n not knoe how 2 approach u on dis. but if u really wanna get married 2 dis dude, u should plan a real romantic evenin wit him n proposse 2 him
2006-06-14 09:33:42 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it really depends on what kind of guy he is. If he tends to be more traditional, he could be offended by it. If you think he wants to ask you though and just doesn't have the nerve and he's comfortable with you taking the lead - then go for it.
2006-06-14 09:25:17 · answer #8 · answered by Kris S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't ask him to marry you.You might run him away.Marriage is scary for a man and if he's not talking about neither should you.Let him bring it up if he doesn't you might want to think about life without marriage.
2006-06-14 09:24:37 · answer #9 · answered by NESHA 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
either or.. if you want it to be realy then go for it girl adn purpose to him do it all romantic like they do and maybe he is just afriad to ask you to marry him so he might be happy that you asked instead of him because its a lot of pressure for both
2006-06-14 09:23:04 · answer #10 · answered by Mel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋