A girl wants to come to my bday party and nobody likes her...i don't even like her..and i told her she can come...but now i feel i shouldn't invite her... im havin ma party in a limo and shes really excited and i don't want to invite her cuz shes weird and boring and she is like a party pooper.
What should i do, invite her or not??
2006-06-14 09:23:56 · 51 answers · asked by dinikahundalani 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
tell her that you talked to some people that would be at the party & that maybe its better that she didn't come.
that you don't want anything to happen to her
& if she really wants to be your friend that she would listen to you & that you are just trying to help her out.
ask to talk to her on the phone, may be you might be able to not be so weird (maybe it's the only way that she knows how to get attention) & with a little work she may be able to have some friends.... take her under your wing & see what you can do
thanks,
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2006-06-14 09:32:19 · answer #1 · answered by Starscream 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you've already invited her. If you have then you can't take the invitation back. That is just plain Rude. Although I do think it was rude of her to kinda invite herself too. But, like the old cliche says "two wrongs don't make a right".
So, if she has been "invited", suck it up and let her come. If she's as "bad" as you say she is, nobody will talk to her anyway, and she'll get the hint. If she hasn't been invited and asks you about it (which would be ruder still), tell her you only have room for (some number) and tell her that you already have that many.
2006-06-14 09:33:46 · answer #2 · answered by kj 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you told her she can come...is that not an invite??? but if you need to, and you really feel you don't eant her there, just tell her that the limo can only fit so many people, and she was the last person to rsvp, or that was invited so you're really really sorry, but she just can't join the party because there is not enough accomadations for everyone, but at the same time, think of what would happen or how you would feel if it was you in this situation, she's a person just like anyone else, and she does deserve to be treated with respect
2006-06-14 09:28:11 · answer #3 · answered by xSarahx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You already invited her so you can't say no now! You are a shallow, little brat and I think if you didn't want her there you shouldn't have invited her in the first place. Sounds like someone cares a little too much about what their friends think. Oh and a birthday party in a limo, how spoiled are you?
2006-06-14 09:27:27 · answer #4 · answered by Tact is highly overrated 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have already invited her - it would be exteremely rude to un-invite her, especailly since she is so excited about it. A girl like that doesn't need people who exclude her from things...she needs people to include her. By getting her more involved with others, kids will start to talk to her, get to know her, like her, and she won't be seen as someone who is 'weird'. Never burn bridges to potential life long friends, even if you can't see it now. Remember, some of the most important people in the world were once considered 'weird'. Bill Gates to name one and now look at him. Give this girl a chance.
2006-06-14 09:29:50 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
As hard as this will be for you, you owe it to her to be honest! Talk with her privately and explain the situation. Or lie and tell her an unexpected relative is coming to visit and your mom insists that you take them to your party! And there is limited room in the limo!
It appears as she sorta invited herself and you didn't have the heart to say no! Sounds like she might just be wanting a limo ride?If she did invite herself or laid a guilt trip on you to force you into inviting her.Get tough and just tell her "what it is" and say no
2006-06-14 09:29:44 · answer #6 · answered by Jo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You already invited her, you can't take back an invite without being a total jerk yourself. If you don't like her, why did you invite her?
So you think she'll be boring and a drag inside a limo? she was already excited. Why don't you give her a chance to get to know her? maybe she's really nice, and maybe you're too shallow to notice that.
2006-06-14 09:27:23 · answer #7 · answered by grldragon101 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it would be mean and embarrassing if you just tell her to her face with people watching.
1.You can meet her in private and tell her that it's not going to work out for her being @ the party
2.You can ask 4 her # and call her so u wont face her
3.You can also just write her a note saying that she shouldnt come cuz she wont be able to hang.(at the end put sry)
2006-06-14 09:28:11 · answer #8 · answered by suga coatz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you don't like her, why does she like you? if you've already invited her it's probably too late to do anything w/o hurting her feelings but if you haven't, just don't tell her when the party is and try avoiding her. if you really don't want to hurt her feelings, you cuold just invite to come over one day and then you wouldn't have to feel so bad about not having her @ your party.
2006-06-14 09:39:18 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm afraid that you already invited her....you said..."I told her she can come". To uninvite her would be cruel & rude. Try to make the best of it; she probably doesn't have a lot of friends and is thrilled to spend your birthday with you. Maybe next year you can be a little more selective on who celebrates with you. Happy Birthday
2006-06-14 09:28:16 · answer #10 · answered by manatee lover 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋