I know how much he wants to overcome this, but he can't seem to sleigh his latenight binging demons...even when he is not hungry. I know how much he starts to hate himself...we are so close and so in love...but the worse it gets, the more he keeps it all locked up. In result, he starts not liking himself, won't want to go anywhere, do anything except stay home and eat (he is a great cook) and watch tv. Going on dates is hard for us b/c he gets so stressed out in public. I have tried various forms of helping him; everything from tough love to blind support of his choices to setting a good example to asking him to pray with our preacher. I know what a fight this is for him...What is my role in helping him be who he wants to be? I am so in love with him...but how can I not get frustrated at the life I have had to quit living (dates, nights out, outdoor activities, etc) b/c he is trying to hide? (And yes, I have tried going out all on my own. It just makes him feel worse)
2006-06-11
05:27:20
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