My boyfriend and I are having a lot of trouble with our relationship. We've been together for almost a year and things aren't the way they used to be. How do I get this terrible heartache to go away? I love him with all of my heart.
2006-06-11 05:16:18 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I truly sympathize with your situation and feelings, but I also believe that if one person in a relationship - especially a young relationship not involving marriage - starts to withdraw because of diminished feelings of love for the other person, there's nothing really you can do about it. You can prolong the inevitable by talking to him, offering compromises, promising eternal love, etc, but if it's not in his heart, the relationship will continue to unravel.
2006-06-11 05:23:40 · answer #1 · answered by nothing 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's time to move on. When a relationship becomes a terrible heartache it' time to find another relationship that makes you feel good. a lot of relationships don't work out after the people get to know each other. You may not find the right guy till your tenth boyfriend. Don't let all the losers in between break your heart.
2006-06-11 06:39:38 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try going to couples counseling. Sometimes a third party can help. If all fails, you may need to realize that it just is no longer meant to be. Women tend to beat their heads against the wall trying to keep a failing relationship together. People come into our lives at different times for different reasons. Sometimes they are here for only a season, sometimes for a lifetime. You need to see how it is and let things flow.
2006-06-11 05:23:36 · answer #3 · answered by taraleighsg 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The two of you just need to sit down and talk about it and maybe involve a counselor. If yo still can't work it out, sometimes the best solution is to end a relationship before it gets any worse than it already is
2006-06-11 05:20:44 · answer #4 · answered by Julie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be patiient and hold on things will fall into places.And relax continue to love him heartaches will be conquer by Love...
2006-06-11 05:20:26 · answer #5 · answered by effy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try and find something to spice up the relationship, if he doesn't enjoy the activities that you do then try and learn about at least one of his past times if he has any and have a conversation about it and join him in it if he wants you to
2006-06-11 05:19:15 · answer #6 · answered by dmxdragon2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That happens espically wen u have a relationship that long u need to sit down and talk.
GOD bless you.
2006-06-11 05:19:13 · answer #7 · answered by Jetta C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find out how he feels for you. Maybe he wants out and just can't bring his self to tell you. Your heart will heal if you lose him.
2006-06-11 05:21:09 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to him and let him know that you wish you two could get back to the way things used to be.
2006-06-11 05:18:54 · answer #9 · answered by captures_sunsets 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
date other men
2006-06-11 05:21:26 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋