I have really abusive parents, especially my father. Should I do something? but I'm only 13.
2006-06-11 05:19:49 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Absolutely you should do something if you have physically or even verbally abusive parents. Go to your student counselor and talk with them for guidance and assistance.
2006-06-11 05:22:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you should take some steps to preserve your own health and peace of mind. The other person's advise about consulting with someone at school is good. They may be able to guide you further. You didn't say what kind of abuse is involved. The police have specialists to deal with the more extreme. Child Protective Services, a county agency also gets involved in the extremes.
2006-06-11 12:26:32 · answer #2 · answered by nothing 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi,
I am sorry to read this. I am 64 yrs old, and have raised 3 children, now married and out on their own.
At 13, you can start by talking with a School Counselor. If you are not happy with that, then go to any Social Services department in your local area. Tell them what is going on.
Best of luck.
2006-06-11 12:25:35 · answer #3 · answered by fredg 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes! Go to the police or talk to someone at your school (a teacher, guidance counselor etc.) Or someone else you trust. You need to tell someone as soon as possible. Even if it's just verbal abuse, it's still not right and you need to stop it. You need to tell someone immediately or it will just keep happening and get worse and worse.
Good luck!
2006-06-11 12:26:31 · answer #4 · answered by 1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. Report problem to your school teacher / principal
2. Take them in confidence and ask them what to do
3. Best you told u'r parents what u feel , but consult u'r school teacher / principal
4. Speak to some senior friend of u'r dad
2006-06-11 12:32:46 · answer #5 · answered by sεαη 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes talk to the authorities or call the abuse hotline
2006-06-11 12:57:00 · answer #6 · answered by arizonabrat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ABSOLUTLEY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
you must let someone know, no matter who it is, your neighbors, friends, the police, anyone you can!! also, try to get help for your father and mother, have them see someone like a phsyciatrist to help them through this abusive phase.
2006-06-11 13:26:51 · answer #7 · answered by dancer0211 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yup. Find a way to the courthouse and tell the what's going on.
2006-06-11 12:23:07 · answer #8 · answered by jeff_is_sexy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What kind of abuse if u don't mind me asking is it sexual or beatings or both,or what is the situation.
2006-06-18 07:39:14 · answer #9 · answered by fairie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try talking with him or talk with you mom or someone you really can trust or beleive in. Good luck! and remember HE has a promble NOT YOU!
2006-06-11 13:31:16 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋