Do you think it's OK to be 'just friends' when I truly luv this girl and obviously want more? I told her how I felt about her after she text messaged me that ..."I really only want friendship" and hre response was... "I'm really sorry". She invites me to eat lunch with me now and another colleague at work . She once said she would think about going out with me. What's the best advice you could give me if I were your brother? Should I wait?
(by the way, I'm a recent College Grad)
2006-06-11 05:21:04 · 15 answers · asked by roadlearner 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
As far as I can see, she is really confused! She hasn't come to a conclusion yet if she wants for a friend or something more. Instead of waiting her when she will decide, MAKE YOUR MOVE! What I mean by that? MAKE HER JEALOUS! Invite her going out with a girl you like and ask her to help you!!! Imagine her face! Ha! Get your revenge now and SHE WILL BE YOURS!!! By ignoring her, you make her to decide faster because she will fear that may lose you!!!
2006-06-11 05:32:39 · answer #1 · answered by super_sexy_amazona 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you were just rushing into a relationship bro,Somtimes it makes the ladies uncomfortable. But doesnt how relationships start out with friendship first?
Be her friend you'll never know what will turn out,Maybe one fine day she'll see the quality in you that might change her mind.But dont get your hopes up it may work or it may not but then again, It wouldn't hurt to have a friend to go out with once in a while. Take it as a ticket for your next relationship cause she'd be revealing thing's we guy's wont know about the ladies. Well thats what id do haha.
2006-06-11 05:34:05 · answer #2 · answered by Lawrence 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear Recent College Grad
You can either take the small crumbs that she is giving you, or you can move on and maybe she will realize that you weren't such a bad guy after all!!! If she only wants friendship, she has made that clear to you, that is how she feels for now. Sorry to say this but take it or leave it. Friend
2006-06-11 05:36:47 · answer #3 · answered by winona e 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At 64 yrs old, I have been through my fair share of dating. I am married now for 29 yrs to a wonderful woman.
Why haven't you asked her out??
All she can say is "No". If she says no, then start meeting new people. You will know if all she wants to be is friends.
Don't wait. Her attitudes toward you probably won't change, and it's best if you find out now. Love takes time; sometimes a year to develop. Why keep being concerned about her....find out.
Best of luck.
2006-06-11 05:29:20 · answer #4 · answered by fredg 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her. Communication face to face is the best approach to this situation. Tell her how you feel and be prepared to either move on with your life or start a wonderful relationship with her. Life is too short for guessing games. Someone out there is worthy of your love. Good luck!
2006-06-11 05:32:30 · answer #5 · answered by Peanut Butter 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have told her how you feel and she dosen't reciprocate, you need to move on. You'll be wasting a lot of time and possible even miss the one who IS right for you because you are looking in the other girls direction. I think you need to move on. Everyone deserves to be loved truly and honestly. Good Luck to you.
2006-06-11 05:26:41 · answer #6 · answered by taraleighsg 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give her space but continue to be just a friend. Maybe she'll come around if you don't push the issue or stalk her or do any of the other obnoxious things guys do to try to convince a girl. Good luck.
2006-06-11 05:24:34 · answer #7 · answered by Not me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most of the time when women say that it means the just don't want to hurt your feelings by saying no . Just stop giving her extra attention and if she does want you she will come to you and start paying more attention to you.
2006-06-11 05:26:55 · answer #8 · answered by ihatebarbies79 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well im sorry i am in a situation like that to i like my friend but he doesnt feel the same way u have to let it go maybe she will in time come to realize that she does.
GOD bless you
2006-06-11 05:24:25 · answer #9 · answered by Jetta C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A decent friendship best kept that way !
before it sours
2006-06-11 05:28:11 · answer #10 · answered by sεαη 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋