I can't stop!! (read details)?

Question

Day and night, awake or asleep..he's always on my mind no matter what i'm doing. I even had two dreams about him in a row, I don't think i'm ever gonna see him again. No, I can't tell him how i feel about him. I just need something to take him off my mind but I dont know what will..

Answer 1

Keep your mind on me. I ain't going anywhere.

Answer 2

Hello,
My heart goes out to you. I know you hurt.

You are grieving.
It hurts,
but it will pass.
Grieving for a lost loved one (both relationship and death) comes in stages in no particular order, but they are there, and the good thing is that IT DOES get better, and less and less with time....the "theory" is 6 months more or less.

You'll go through painful tears, denial want them back, anger, and then finally acceptance. You won't forget them, but the acceptance that you can never have them again, is at last what makes you able to look for someone new.

It is a good practice, to not give your heart away too quickly, and make sure you are totally loved by the other person, before you give your whole heart next time.

I wish you love
STW

Answer 3

i know exactly how you feel. you see, i like this one guy a lot and i have had a lot of dreams about him. omg i hope he doesn't see this. ok and um i have even written poems for him and everything. the reason is if you really love him and he is the guy you can talk to than tell him. i told my guy. even though he moved and met this other girl and he can't stop talking about her. well anyway just tell him. you can never get out of a crush or love or however you think of him in a good way. so maybe the only way to get him out of your mind is just to tell him. just try. i did it and it worked. oh wait i still have dreams about him day and night so um just trry and see if that works. ok.

Answer 4

This is an idea right out of psychology.
It is called STOP THOUGHT

Every time you think about him, immediately say to yourself in your mind STOP.
You might see it in big red letters in your mind.
Sort of shout at yourself and mean it.
You have to keep doing it for a little while, but it really works. Of course you will probably go back to thinking about him, but the more you do this little exercise, the less you will think about him.
It works. Good Luck!
Hecate

Answer 5

i was the same way with this one guy..i lost sleep because my mind wouldn't stop thinking of him. it was hard just getting through the day with him on my mind 24/7. i finally broke down and told him how i felt. he was married and i didn't want to tell him. but, then i found out they were getting divorced, i jumped on the opportunity and told him...now we are married..and very much in love. i hope you can find a way to get him out of ur mind all the time. as much as you love him...he's making you miserable because, of the love you have for him. you really should consider telling him how you feel..it's not going to hurt anything for him to know. good luck

Answer 6

Talking with others, meeting new people, is the best way to get your mind off someone.
I was divorced after my 1st 7 yrs of marriage. Took a year to start dating again. Then, after 3 yrs, remarried, now for 29 yrs.
Get out and meet others.....it will help.
SMILE when you meet others. It shows you like yourself, and others will like you, too.
best of luck.

Answer 7

i think the best way is to pray to God for guidance and also if u can't get him out of ur mind just tell him the truth

Answer 8

I once heard someone say if you can't get someone off your mind or in your heart, maybe they're supposed to be there

Answer 9

How are you never gonna see him again? maybe you need to spend the rest of his days with him!

Answer 10

Can't help you,I have the same problem. At,least,now you know you'r not alone...

Answer 11

I wish I can help u but I have that same problem.