Family & Relationships - 11 June 2006

I have become a full time babysitter for my sister and neice but never agreed to the arrangement. When I mention that I cant or dont want to do it they guilt trip me about not being there for them. They used to watch my kids occasionally but have not had to in months. I dont want to hurt thier feelings but I have a life I need to live and cant do that with five kids with me every day. I cant even leave the house because there is not enough room in the car for everyone. I am not saying I will never watch the kids I just cant do it all the time. I love my family but am feeling used.

2006-06-11 14:56:23 · 5 answers · asked by ettennej79 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I know I'm making it hard on myself to find a guy...but my question is...Where are all the HOT guys?

2006-06-11 14:53:15 · 15 answers · asked by Cola 3 in Singles & Dating

I have had boyfriends but I have never been in love with them except for my recent one which hasn't broken my heart, instead I have broken his plenty times and he has had to deal with alot of my bullshit. He is wonderful and awkwardly he keeps coming back to me.Why does he keep coming back?

2006-06-11 14:53:00 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-06-11 14:52:47 · 12 answers · asked by D B 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

and still like it?

2006-06-11 14:52:28 · 4 answers · asked by Phillip 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-06-11 14:52:03 · 6 answers · asked by vespa 2 in Friends

In other words, why claim to be Italian if you're not from Italy? It's not a race therefore you cannot be Italian if you're not from Italy. If that was the case (going by last name), then I would be Irish or something. And I'm black! Everyone in America's name is foreign, but that doesn't make you foreign. Sorry for the repition lol.

2006-06-11 14:51:39 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I have a 1 year old son with a very abusive man. He is recently out of jail and is back to his old ways. I know the best thing for me and my son is to relocate. But I dont have the money are there any goverment agency that could help. I honestly fear for our safty if we stay in this town.

2006-06-11 14:50:18 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2006-06-11 14:49:45 · 13 answers · asked by Mighty 1 in Singles & Dating

Maybe something besides I Love You, cuz obviously that's great, but like just a friend or family member...

2006-06-11 14:49:18 · 6 answers · asked by genuine♥ 3 in Friends

2006-06-11 14:48:49 · 11 answers · asked by black 33 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-06-11 14:47:25 · 2 answers · asked by hikerchic 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Scenario: I know this girl for 3 years. We were like the best friends until she had to move.. not far away and i am felling attracted by her.. when i visit her or she visits me or when we chat etc. Now the problem is that .. somehow we've developed sortof "lovers" way to talk via messenger.. endles kisses, flirts and stuff like that.

Do this thing happen normally? I really do not want to lose her as i lost someone else the same way like this after a 9 months relationship which made me realise that my best friend was exaclty the opposite as i knew her.

Based on this previous experience it is .. like a fobia for me to talk about this with her.
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What should i do?
Thanks...

P.S.:People with no ethics interested in big penises/boobs/money etc stay away .. i will check your posts :P

2006-06-11 14:47:00 · 7 answers · asked by HoolaHoola 1 in Singles & Dating

-guyz r alwayz so hard 2 understand.
-They neva no wat they want
-n their alway actin like they wanna whip every guyz *** who jus flirtz wit u a lil

2006-06-11 14:46:55 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-06-11 14:45:52 · 10 answers · asked by magic2006 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

And for all of you really angry people give me the top 10 that your ex does to drive you bananas?

2006-06-11 14:45:49 · 12 answers · asked by lisam810 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend is living with his ex-wife. He has 2 kids with her and says he cannot leave because she could not pay the bills alone. I
moved in a few weeks ago but I think that this situation is weird and I don't know how much longer I can even deal with it? We have a child together as well. It feels really wrong and weird to have to see him interact with someone he has been intimate with on a daily basis. The worst is that my child has grown really attached to her. Is it just me? Should I just leave them be and find someone else altogether?

2006-06-11 14:43:53 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Both of my parents are bipoler and manic depressant. I thank God did not get the gene

2006-06-11 14:42:59 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2006-06-11 14:42:45 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

please tell me if you are male or female.

2006-06-11 14:42:12 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-06-11 14:41:52 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2006-06-11 14:40:34 · 12 answers · asked by §†êþhåñïê»-(¯`v´¯)-» 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

(this question is intentionally vague. I want you to answer it anyway you see fit.)

2006-06-11 14:40:24 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My parents split up many years ago & a year before they got divorced my mother gave birth to my younger sister. Now both my parents are black but for some reason my younger sister came out unusually light skinned. Now there is no way two dark skinned african americans can have a really light skinned baby.

My mother tells me it is my father's child but I dont believe it. She and my father were already having problems when my mother got pregnant & she had been really close friends with one of my dad's white friends (too close if ya know what i mean). & i suspect that he may be the father.

I am fairly dark skinned but my sister is just as light skinned as my asian girlfriend! & she has freckles.She has black nappy hair but if u look close enough you will see she has some brown hairs like that white guy my mother was "close friends" with. Even tho my father treats her like his own, i think he has a feeling shes not his..

so what do u think? is my sis really my sis or my HALF sis?

2006-06-11 14:40:09 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

basically i am trying to see if i am still sexy, cuz i had my heart broken badly, ty

2006-06-11 14:39:20 · 6 answers · asked by Need Passion 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm like totally infatuated with my friend's (& prom date) father. I'm 19 & his father is 49, I know many people think that is weird & gross. But he is really good looking, a lawyer, very intelligent, and we get along wonderfully. I I love when he hugs me and looks into my eyes, and when we share food...I'm not sure what I should do. Just forget about him...however I enjoy kind of flirting with him. Please don't repsond with 'gross. yuck. etc.' this is not a childish matter. I wonder if one day when I'm older if a relationship could be a possibility? Thank you.

2006-06-11 14:38:30 · 13 answers · asked by preppy_in_pink21 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

mostly everyone is having sex outside of marriage circle. and the words of God are not taking seriously any more.

do you think sex is not special anymore? since it's availabe to everyone even without marriage. ?

2006-06-11 14:37:39 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I don't like to have sex with my husband becuase he says things that hurts my fealings and we fight offten, my husband says that if I gave it more he would be nicer and we would get along better. What do you think???

2006-06-11 14:35:32 · 21 answers · asked by lee b 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-06-11 14:34:21 · 11 answers · asked by Germain 77 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I am a Black female who has always loved Country music, cowgirl hats, sports bars, rodeos. However, it seems most people think all who love Country music are or should be Caucasian. I can't seem to find a guy to share my love of Country. The Black ones are into "Soul" music (or into themselves) and the white ones are either too shy or too scared about what their peers may think of them. My dream would be to find a Caucasian guy (my preference) and really have good times together; someone who is honest, kind, sharing, and seeks a loving, caring future; not just a one-night stand. Someone who doesn't care what the world thinks and lives to please himself and his love. Is there such a person... I wonder...???

2006-06-11 14:33:55 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating