Scenario: I know this girl for 3 years. We were like the best friends until she had to move.. not far away and i am felling attracted by her.. when i visit her or she visits me or when we chat etc. Now the problem is that .. somehow we've developed sortof "lovers" way to talk via messenger.. endles kisses, flirts and stuff like that.
Do this thing happen normally? I really do not want to lose her as i lost someone else the same way like this after a 9 months relationship which made me realise that my best friend was exaclty the opposite as i knew her.
Based on this previous experience it is .. like a fobia for me to talk about this with her.
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What should i do?
Thanks...
P.S.:People with no ethics interested in big penises/boobs/money etc stay away .. i will check your posts :P
2006-06-11 14:47:00 · 7 answers · asked by HoolaHoola 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She needs to know how you feel about her, you never know she might be thinking exactly the same thing about you, funnier things have happened, good luck.
2006-06-18 12:30:56 · answer #1 · answered by i'm_a_goodie 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
this may sound a little weird but my wife and i knowneach other for millions of years te he not really millions 9 years and well we had hated each others guts then i had broke up with my grilfriend at the same time she broke up with hers and well be started talking how it made us feel then wham-o we felt so attracted to each toher the bond was issresistable of course we had troubles mending those name callings but look at us now...
I thinks what you should do is slow make a move on her snuggle a little closer next time you sit and watch the TV sytart opening up your feelings to her and if she responses slowly take it a little furter tell your feelings towards her and she might be feeling the same exact way underneth but if you open up to her not like mushy stuff learn what she likes what she likes to do you'll know what and hopfully you can really find somthing special in your life. I always found the friends you hold of the opposite sex always know you a little better and that will jumpstart you
2006-06-11 15:00:53 · answer #2 · answered by john 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WELL, I FEEL LIKE YOU DON'T WANT TO MAKE THE SAME MISTAKE TWICE, VERY UNDERSTANDABLE BUT YOU CANT BASE EVERYONE THE SAME WAY... THIS COULD BE DIFFERENT... SHE COULD POSSIBLY BE YOUR SOUL MATE... I BELIEVE YOU SHOULD GIVE FATE A CHANCE... DON'T KNOCK SOMETHING UNTIL YOU TRY IT... THE FIRST THING YOU SHOULD DO THOUGH WOULD BE TO TALK TO YOUR BEST FRIEND ABOUT YOUR FEELINGS.... STARTING A RELATIONSHIP WITH A FRIEND (BEST FRIEND) AT THAT WOULD BE MORE SENSIBLE THAN A RELATIONSHIP WITH A TOTAL STRANGER... YOU KNOW EACH OTHERS LIKES AND DISLIKES AND YOU KNOW WHAT EACH OTHER NEEDS AND WANTS ARE.... YOU CAN'T GET ANY BETTER THAN THAT....GOOD LUCK...
2006-06-11 14:56:32 · answer #3 · answered by slimchuckie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i moved away from my friend b4 and i felt d same way n i thought it was weird cos i didnt feel that way when i seen them all the time but when i moved i think its more cos ur missin sumthin that u always took 4 granted.but if u think it's love go 4 it cos it dosnt always happen!
2006-06-11 15:54:27 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
get her in the bag as soon as possible, tell her how you feel man you may regret it if you dont, take the chance you will be no worse off than you are now
2006-06-12 00:07:55 · answer #5 · answered by harrierzero1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Aww, tell her how u really feel :) Sounds awesome... don't let her get away!
2006-06-11 14:51:27 · answer #6 · answered by genuine♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go for it... it's not very often that you find that kind of connection =) Past is past, don't dwell on them... take your chances and don't let it pass... GOOD LUCK!!!
2006-06-11 20:33:40 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋