Respect... thats one huge word we're dealing with, one with a lot of impact when first uttered... R E S P E C T, respect...
the thing is, how does everyone analyze, or comprehend this word, is there some universal "respect" rule, that everyone should abide to? or is it something that is passed on, from generation to another... how do learn to respect other people..
what made me think this way, is, as always and forever, my dearly beloved mother...
see, whenever we have an argument, she always says that i disrespect her, and that whenever she talks, i shouldnot look her in the eye, divert my fierceful gaze from hers, avoiding the sparks that result from the words she spills from her mouth when she is devlishly mad...
but the problem is, i didnot say ONE thing, i just listened, not wanting to talk back, as to not "disrespect" her, but i always fail... i always seem to disrespect her, my whole reason for my existence is to disrespect her as it seems..
when my best friend argues with her mother, she doesnot force her to go under this dictatorial routine that i go through, no, she actually speaks up her mind, and gives her, well gives her one hell of a big piece of what she is thinking... and when i ask her "how come, you disrespect you mother that way", she says, "she doesnot have the right to treat me like a kid when she always asks me to be a grownup"...
i wish i can do the same thing she does, well, no, let me rephrase this, i wish my mother is as understanding as her mother... but i guess i dont think i can do that after all those years now, can i?
i know i could, as Dr.Phil, Oprah always believe in redemption, and restarting all over again, etc etc
so, how do you interpret "respect"?? how is "respect" obeyed in your house?
ps: thanks for everyone that intends to share their thoughts...means a lot to me.. merci
2006-06-29
03:12:27
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