why do girls like gay guys so much?

Question

i am a guy and find it absolutely disgusting and wrong to b gay. that is my christian belief. do not mean to offend any one by it.

Answer 1

Just to set the record straight, I am a Fundalmentalist Christian and an Ultra-Conservative and my wife and I both have gay friends. A true Christian can befriend anyone. "Judge not lest ye be judged."

My wife used to have a job that required 90% travel and a lot of socialization. She grew up in a small town and had never met a gay person before this job. Yet, in very little time she developed a gay posse. At first she was timid but quickly discovered that she could be as out there as she wanted to be and not be judged.

People enjoy acceptance and the abscence of judgement. She could go out with her posse and not worry about having to look better than any one else for attention nor did she have to worry about over-amorous attention.

Gay guys like to play with dolls and life size dolls are all that much better. My wife's posse loved to shop with her, help her dress up, apply make-up, do her hair, yet they didn't feel they had to compete with her like other women may.

If she was out at a club with her posse she knew that if she had too much to drink that they would see to her safety without taking advantage.

Gays are fun. A far greater percentage of gays like to dance than straight guys. Girls like to dance. Gay boys like the same drinks that girls do. Gays aren't afraid to express emotion.

Since the gay guys are interested in appearance they tend to groom immaculately and dress fashionably. Girls not only like to look good but they like being surrounded by good looking people.

Why do girls like gay guys so much? Why not. Females are more into emotional satisfaction than physical. Many straight males tend to focus on the physical which turns women off. Gay guys are emotionally fulfilling.

Answer 2

Well, I'm a gay guy, and I have to agree with theonequincy. He's right, we usually dress fashionably, we won't take advantage of a girls, I'll always help a friend with her out fit/ and hair, and I will always be a shopping buddy :). And plus there's no tension and we can talk about the same things.

Answer 3

Whether it is a christian believe or another belief, it is true gay relationship is not balance. Respect them. Not to get involved because they create social problem for themselves and those around them.

I think girls like gay guys so much because they know that they can just be friends and no more.

Like is different from Love........

Answer 4

I m a straight guy but I do know the following things:

1) Gay guys aren t girls so there s no feeling of competition
2) Gay guys aren t straight guys so there s no feeling of the guys flirting or whatever with her

That being said they re usually great friends

Answer 5

Trust is a big female issue and when a girl is with a girl, she has full trust that there will be no advances, (which isn't always true).

There is no fear that her best friend is really stalking behind her through the underbrush waiting for a chance to go for the jugular and wrestle her into submission for dinner. There's always that possibility with a straight guy, even if he's taken, even with a girl, but with a guy who's gay, she trusts that he's not interested.

His proclaiming to the world that he is gay and accepting the criticism of Christians and conservatives and the teasing and name-calling of the ignorant is initiation enough for him to be allowed to join her sacred club.

Answer 6

I like gay guys because I feel I can be myself around them. There's no pressure to flirt!

I don't feel I'm being judged on my looks, or assessed or rejected as a possible mate - whether consciously or subconsciously, I think all straight guys do that to girls.

Every gay guy - and lesbians too, for that matter - I've ever met I've instantly liked. Just like all of my friends, they have been mellow, open-minded, and in general just a good person.

Answer 7

I think it has to deal with Gay males having more sensitive outlooks. Females can relate to gay males in this way. Merely they are extensions of their female friends. The gay guys don't judge women like sraight guys. Gay guys most often like hearing womens problems. Straight guys would rather pay attention to sports or something, nothing is wrong with that, it's just differences in emotional response.

Answer 8

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When I'm with homosexual guys, there's NO pressure whatsoever. I can be myself and even be flirty and fun, WITHOUT worrying that they're looking at me in "that way." You know they don't want to get in your pants-- that they're here for YOU and your personality. Also, it's fun being able to talk about guy issues and point out cuties with someone other than girls. The word for it is FUN, plain and simple. Plus, gay guys are adorable, fashionable, and they tend to care more about deep, serious issues than hetero guys, who often only think about sports and hot girls. lol

Answer 9

girls like them so much because girls want what they can't have and gay guys are the pillar. Girls know that a gay guy is the hardest to get, so that if they do get a gay guy to sleep or do anything with them then they are victorious.

Crazy but thats what it is.

Answer 10

Most men are quite predatorial in their relationships with women. They are competitive and aggressive, don't like to shop, and talk about sports. Although I am probably falling into a stereotype of sorts here, many gay men are sensitive, artistic, and do like to shop. What's not to like about gay guys, if you are a woman? Look at how nifty the gay guys were to Bette Middler!