Here is my problem:
I'm 21, and I've never been in a relationship, and that's mainly because I have a lot of difficulty understanding what's going on here.
Just pretend your girlfriend or boyfreind didn't have sex organs, okay? When you remove the sexual attraction, and the romance from the picture, what is the difference between your love for your significant other, and your love for your friend or family member?
I just don't get it. I know it may sound completely stupid, and maybe it's becuase I've never been "in love" or whatever. It's just that, everytime I think I want a relationship, I remember that dating always feels silly, like a waste of time, and having a "real" relationship with someone would mean friendship... which isn't really different from a regular friendship except for the sex part... or is it? Someone please explain this to me! Am I crazy?
2007-12-28
18:15:10
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