I found myself having an affair with a married man. He as 2 young daughters. He was always complaining about his marriage but stayed in it for his children.
I recently found out that I was pregnant and that he was the father.
He is begging me to get an abortion, because his daughters would never respect him if he had another child with someone else. He says he doesn't care so much for his wife, that his worry is mainly his daughters.
I am against abortion, and can not see myself having one. But the situation is far from ideal.
I need some people to give me advice, i don't need to be judged, i know i sinned and i don't need to be reminded. This won't help at all, I just need advice.
My heart leads me to want to keep this child, but I feel like it would affect so many people's lives, including my child. I just can't think straight. I want to keep it but I don't know if it's the best option for me and the child. Also, should take the father and his family into consideration?
thanks
2007-12-16
04:08:56
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