My husband and I have different views when it comes to having children. I want 2 and he wants 0. What bothers me though is that he was married before and she had a child (not his, by another guy) and he loved that kid to death. He still has pictures and talks about him at times. It bothers me that he loved someone else's child so much, yet doesnt want to have one with me? After long long loooong talks we've come to an agreement of basicaly, if it happens... it happens. We pull out, not going to any extremes to have them or not to have them. If we are meant to have children, we will. But I am still bothered at the fact that he loved that other child so much, yet doesnt want to have one now. Im not sure if its not wanting to have one with me.. or that he misses that other one so much he doesnt want to do that again. Should I be worried that if we do have kids, he wont feel the same towards them?
2007-12-11
08:30:40
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Mrs. N™
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Marriage & Divorce